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2 December 2005
Kiddo blog in L.A. 1
I have now an anonymous blog in parallel to this one, for the people who reads this independently of Mycroft Holmes Blog in L.A. (this blog appears at two places, but I assure you, it is unlikely that you will find out about where the second place is).
At the time of
writing this, it is too secret for my main blog that I wish some close friends
to read. Unfortunately these close friends need not know that I might have met
Lucky you, people who read this right now, it is going beyond the call of duty to let you read this. It means that this blog will forever need to remain anonymous and secret.
His pseudo is Norton, he calls me Kiddo. Iíve met him over the Internet. Where else? At least it kept me out of the bars and clubs so far. We have been discussing on the phone every day this week. I had to fight to get to him, it took him a while to get back to me. For more than two weeks I did not think I would ever hear from him again.
So I went crazy, I
multiplied the messages, I insisted, it was melodramatic. I somehow connected
to him even though I have only one photo of him and had read some stuff he
wrote about himself. I kind of connected because he looks so much like my
Stephen whoís still in
It is because he
might not come, though I know he suffers a lot over there without me, after ten
years together this is quite normal, that I decided to meet someone else. I
thought there was no need that I suffered too, like I did in my first month
Maybe it is not wise to start a new relationship over here behind his back, especially if he arrives sooner rather than later, however it happened like that and I wanted it. It was not part of my plan but sex has become a stranger in our relationship, and I certainly would like to meet that stranger again. Iím only 33, too young to be an old maid without even affection and tenderness.
It is however quite interesting that Norton is basically the double of my little Stephen. They are both very skinny, have a great smile with soulful eyes (as would say Norton), and are very simple people in their own ways. They are both little fiery things and appear to have great amount of energy screaming to get out. It would not take much for them to start a fight or suffer from road rage. My Norton was involved in many fights in pubs, strangely often on St. Patrickís day, as he mentioned.
I knew Norton before I even spoke to him. He believes a lot in horoscopes, but he is a Virgo and Stephen is a Pisces. I believe in genes and chromosomes a bit more in this case. Norton has a deep voice, more than I would have thought from his photo, but I find it very sexy and comforting.
He also has,
weirdly enough, a Scottish, Irish and British accent (all of them) even though
he is certainly American. He says he has many friends who are from
At the same time I
have spent ten years in
This week was a wonderful week. No problems at work, even though I feel I have not worked as hard as I could have. I had something else to make it nicer. I had my Norton to think about all day. It was like falling in love again, something I have not felt or experienced in more than ten years.
To be honest, I never thought it possible for me to have a crush like this, almost like a little girl would have. I thought it was all over for me, until at least I went through an intensive Atkins diet for at least six months, or something even more radical like stopping eating altogether. I understand now why I was not that motivated with my inexistent diet, I needed to fall in love first. So it is like the chicken and the egg, which one comes first, and without either of them, love or losing weight, neither are possible.
Thankfully I think
Norton is getting tired of his sex life with morons in
That he would suddenly be interested in me without having met me is quite something special. In fact, I think it was destiny. His photo, as I told him, spoke to me. I really needed to meet this guy. I was sure at first sight that I would be capable of loving him very much.
He was not frightened by how opened I have been, on the contrary, he appears to have connected at my first message. This is quite extraordinary. You would have told me this a month ago and I would have laughed. But not anymore!
Norton has worked for twenty years with actors, but now he feels a bit miserable in a computer survey job. He would like to have a better job so he could pay his bills. He too seems incapable to satisfy his boss, so life could not have been so great. His sister lives with him and, from what I can understand, most of his family is no longer living.
He is also two years younger than Stephen, and they both have a similar body. †The difference is that Norton does not have, to my knowledge, a heroine and vodka addiction. As a consequence, as he says, he loves sex anytime anywhere. He is kind of explicit over the phone, he feels like me, certainly looking forward to fall in each other arms and enjoy love and sex all night long. Even if he has strange ideas like covering me with food and eating it there on my body. Not sure if I will enjoy it.
We will meet Sunday, unless something happens, which is quite possible. Tomorrow, Saturday, he is working, and I guess I will be too, transcribing to a file all that was said in the hour and a half conversation with a lawyer about my conference. It is not going to be easy, especially that I still need to buy a car and a TV. After that, Iíve got pretty much everything I need.
Oh Sunday, will you ever come?
3 December 2005
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Oh oh, I think I have asked too personal a question tonight to my dear Norton. I asked him about his family, he had no trouble telling me about his sister who lives with him, or that his parents are dead, but he blocked when I asked him about his other brothers and sisters, if any. What could it mean?
I already knew he had something going on about his family, since he did say before that his special someone would have to be understanding of friends and family. I wondered what he meant by that, and I am afraid to admit that this is what prompted my question.
And knowing myself, I will ask it again soon, embarrassing him even more. I should not, he will tell me in his own time. If I insist, I feel he might cut all bridges. It is one of these things that are very serious. What could it be?
First thing that came to my mind is that he has a brother in prison. Somehow I feel he could admit to that. Perhaps he has a sister in prison. That would be more difficult to say. Especially if she was there for something shameful, like, well, like what? Why do women go to prison for these days that is shameful?
Stealing is of no consequence, sexual abuse could be shameful enough, but somehow I donít think this is it. People who have a rotten apple in the family, are usually quite capable of dissociating themselves with that member of the family and continue to live on ignoring that the person actually exists.
What could it be then? Mental illness? He said I had a lot of imagination tonight, I guess I just donít have enough to figure that one out. I did a quick search on the Internet about shameful things about family members. One of them is incontinence or Female Bladder Control Problem. Again, I donít believe that would be something to get you into depressing mode and send you into a spin whenever we mention it.
Actually, death is probably something that would do that. They are dead, or one is dead, and it has affected him terribly. He still feels a lot of pain, so it must be recent. And if he blocked tonight, it is because he did not want to get into it since he is sick and wanted to go to bed. That must be it.
I should be ashamed with myself! I think my life has become just a film script since I have arrived here, I can just imagined the weirdest and impossible things. But everyone knows that life is weirder than movies. I heard many people say that they often base their stories on true events, and have to tone it down for the films since it would be too unbelievable and people would not buy it.
I am also ashamed
to say that the word pretentious came back a lot tonight in our conversations.
Well done! One month in
I hope he wonít hold it against me, I tried to correct that the best way I could, under the circumstances, I havenít been convincing enough. He said that my pretentiousness was part of my charm, I hope he believes it.
There is another
big worry here. He has kind of cancelled tomorrow, saying that he nearly froze
to death waiting for the bus tonight, and the wind brought upon him all these
particles which makes him sneeze. So now he has a cold. Weíre in
So will I see him
tomorrow or not? He will let me know in the morning. He seems to be a home
bunny, so I guess any idea of a cold kills any motivation to get into a bus for
two hours to cross
I also know now why I have been repeating myself a lot to him yesterday on the phone. I was so drunk the first time we spoke, and perhaps the second time as well, that I had forgotten a lot of what was said. I also went right over the fact that he had been quite sick on the last three years, in a coma actually. He was pushed down the stairs in a bar on New Yearís Eve, he does not know why or by whom, ended up in hospital and was virtually given up for dead. On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being the best chance of recovery, he was classified as 1. Canít believe I did not get into that subject then and did not remember about it tonight.
He was not drunk,
and he has to take pills every day from fears to lose consciousness and never
wake up again. Apparently a nerve has been severely damage and he has fainted
over a dozen times in recent years. This is why he lost his job working with
actors and now has a rotten job requiring little abilities. However he says he
suffers no disability except that he cannot lie in job interviews since he
could lose consciousness, and he has been discriminated against for years now.
He did say that he was not happy about the government of
You know you are
living in a paranoid state when at 33 years old they ask you for ID whenever
you buy beers. I found it funny the first time, but now it is getting on my
nerves. Do I look 16? Or do they ask ID to grandfathers as well? What else is
this State paranoid about that I donít know yet but will suffer from
eventually? And the worse fact is that
I digress from my topic of conversation, typical me. My blog is like a phone call to Norton, we can jump from topic to topic, at least there is no blank in our conversation. One favorite subject of ours is Sherlock Holmes, as his favorite film of all time is Private Life of Sherlock Holmes, I am watching it right now on my computer. Why is it his favorite? Because a friend sold to him a laser disc player and he inherited I supposed this laser film with the machine.
That is one way of getting into Sherlock Holmes, I discovered the books because my Manager in my first conference job gave me the book. This is a case of developing a new passion because of technology, and limitation of technology. Not many laser discs were made before these laser disc players died as if they never existed. So he must have watched them over and over again, until that film became his favorite of all time. Anything Sherlock Holmes turns to gold. Oh mighty Sir Arthur Conan Doyle has done it. My favorite of all time is the series of Sherlock Holmes played by Jeremy Brett, also my favorite actor.
And on this note, I will go to bed, just in case Norton comes over tomorrow. I doubt it, even if I would love to. However this is more like a love story, and I admit that love does not require sex at the beginning. Only preliminaries that can last weeks. It is like an investment for the future. I am not that desperate for sex anyway, the thought that he exists, that he cares for me, that he calls without fault every day, is ample for me, for the moment.
Oh, before I turn the computer off. One thing he has said that could definitely be a lie. Especially that it even contradicts things he said before, according to my blog. He has met two persons in the recent months before but he claims they did not have sex, as there was no connection. He apparently did not have sex for more than a year, perhaps more. It would be too good to be true, but highly improbable, since he claims he loves sex anytime anywhere, and certainly talks about it a lot on the phone.
Something interesting though, if he really met two guys and decided to not go any further with them, maybe he is afraid of meeting me for some reason. I have not lied to him, I showed him my recent photos. Now, perhaps he is also afraid that I might reject him, and the two other guys perhaps rejected him. I donít believe so, but his photo is at least three years old, it predates his serious accident. Could he have changed? He says he still looks the same, that he is still slim. Iím not worried anyway, but he could be holding back meeting me until he is sure I am hooked by his personality and charm, as far as I can find out from our phone conversations, that is.
Weíll soon find out, or would we?
6 December 2005
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I called Norton tonight, I asked him if it was a good time. He said no, and that at least he was honest. I asked him if I should call back later or tomorrow, and he said tomorrow. I wonder now if he realizes the impact of that sentence.
In my mind, now he finds me an annoyance. I call too much, he needs his breathing space. We have not even met yet! That is what is the killer, of all stories.
A second ago I thought he would feel guilty and call me back later. I thought he had become addicted to our daily phone calls. But now I think he wonít, because he knows our phone calls last forever.
My brain is going
in higher drive. To think that today I was actually wondering how I would tell
Stephen that I have met a new boyfriend and that he should stay in
There are no longer only two persons in this equation, but three. Breaking up a relationship of ten years is hard, but this is something I have been practicing in my mind in the last few days. I was prepared to announce to him the news that I had met someone else, sweet, lost, alone. And that we had developed the most wonderful relationship. That I was sorry, but that was life.
Useless to say
that I donít feel like that anymore, since I was blatantly rejected by Norton
tonight. I suddenly remember the lie I told Stephen in my email tonight, that I
would be so happy if he were to come to
Anything else is just a whim, uncertain circumstances. This is what will have to work around and with, in parallel, my real relationship of ten years, in secret if necessary. No need to sacrifice anything just yet.
It turns out that Norton did not have any other brothers and sisters. He actually did not blocked when I assumed he did. Understanding of family means that his sister lives with him and they never discussed the fact that he was gay. Though he is gay and it is obvious, because he has photos of naked men in his room, but they have actually never talked about it.
So it means that I need to understand that I will need to be discreet with his sister. Also, the friends part, was about two gay dying friends with Aids that he needs to visit on a regular basis. All that stuff is shameful enough, or simply not easy to say upfront, no wonder it took him days to say so, weeks now.
Oh Norton! What
are doing to me? I feel so alone, I need comforting, and you reject me just
like that? Iím suffering! I have already drunk five beers, and I now have a
glass of Rosť from
I now feel like
calling my baby in
Nortonís annoying me now. All the very small details about his personality are now surfacing. I donít like the fact that he does not like to have his toes or his ass licked. Just that! And that he is very grunge with his holes in his trousers without wearing underwear, so every other straight guy can look at his dick and judge him. I donít like the idea that he has two earrings and try to convince everyone that he is an interesting chap, looking like Popeye on his photo which is three years old at least. Has he got something to prove to all these actors he has been working with? That he is better than they are? By leading a life trying to convince everyone that he is different and interesting?
It is useless, I love him already for all that and more. He has me under his spell. I would be ready to sacrifice everything at the first demand on his part. I should be ashamed of myself, but is this not called love? And is it not normal to sacrifice everything for love? Even for someone you have never met?
Just when I thought that my life had reached a new low. Who could have predicted that? No one, except God! If that bugger actually exists. I call it destiny, which makes me as superstitious as any of those Mexicans or Salvadorians I meet. Am I not in control of that damn destiny? Controlling all the details of it despite everything that seem to fall into place as it should, out of my control? Damn!
Iím not in control, or am I ultimately? Is it possible that my subconscious knows more about what is to come, and makes sure everything around me falls into place, while Iím trying to convince myself I have free will in this world? No I donít! And a few dťjŗ vu I recently experienced proves it. Even though it was so vague! I still see through it all.
Thereís no freedom here! Just the hope that there is. Just the impression that there is. Iím following a destiny, all right, I know that much. The path is all laid out in front of me, for me to follow without even have to question it and wonder if something else might not be more suitable.
I got what I want, thatís for sure, but is it enough? Am I still free? God knows. I donít feel like it at the moment. Everythingís too perfect, even if life throws a few problems and dilemmas along the way. I see through it, and I would not want it to be less perfect. It would only mean more troubles, more obstacles to overcome, and ultimately I could give up.
I guess Iíll just
have to live through all of this, and understand later what it was all about,
when I read this blog again. Thanks! Have you thought of my happiness in all
that crap? Should I not be happy? Do something about it then! Make me happy,
make it simple, make me appreciate life for the simple pleasures we have down
here. Make me happy to live! Being in
7 December 2005
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It is lunch time. I fear I might lose Norton. He said he was quite direct and when he is not interested he says so right away. Well, yesterday was a bit of that. And today he is online on that dating website. Not sure what he is doing there, he is not reading my blog or visiting my page, as far as I can tell.
I thought of not calling him tonight, to see if he will. I donít want to play mind games and I donít want to lose him. We have not met yet, so he could still decide to walk away. So I will call him and see what happens.
He says he never lies, and yet, that he did not have sex in a year, being on a dating website like that, should have sent me the alarm bell. I would not want to jump to conclusions too quickly, it is just that I am very insecure. Perhaps also I should not dream to start a new relationship on a website like that. Maybe it is just a crazy idea. I am faithful to him right now, I still think he is, but I think he also has an addiction to porn on that dating website, and this could also just be normal.
I have porn myself
here, I risked bringing it over to the
I need to go back to work. Oh Norton! What are you doing to me! I hope we will meet this weekend, otherwise I think I will just forget about him and try my luck elsewhere.
It is 6h27 pm, and
Norton is still online!!! It makes no sense! Is he at work or at home? Has he
been home all day? He sometimes does not work on week days. He did say he could
only use the computer when his sister was not there, she works full time but
arrives home early. Being online all day means that he opened his profile and
left it on. I hope. Otherwise, he is more addicted to porn than I thought, or
he is actively looking for sex with cuties around where he lives.
Following what happened today, I decided not to call him tonight. My first idea was that perhaps I was there in his life too much. He needs some breathing space. And then I kind of reaffirmed my independence. I donít need him and I can survive without him. Iím already in the process of flushing him out of my life and system. So I wonít call him tonight, I will study for my driving exam on Friday instead. Hopefully he will call, otherwise, I guess it is over. And I will need to live with it. Sooner is better than later, as would say Mila Jovovich in Joan of Arc. Itís over! As would say Morrissey. Sad I never even met the guy! Better be over now than in a few weeks time. As I would say, since no one said that as a memorable expression, to my knowledge.
In a way, I would feel a bit more liberated. I owe nothing to this guy, why should I be faithful when I could meet anyone else in town? It is quite tempting. Short of catching bugsÖ and not have someone to call every day to reassure me in my crisisÖ there are definite advantages to have Norton on my side. He seems to have a very nice and unusual personality. He says he feels the same about me, and that he is interested in a relationship with me even though Iím not one of the cuties without a brain. Letís give him until the weekend to make a move.
It is now 10h26 pm. Norton has not called. I dare not go and see if he is online on that dating website. I just checked, he is no longer online. Either he has met someone or his sister came back and he finally turned off the computer, whether or not he was surfing most of the day. Considering that he was on the dating website today, I think he wonít call. And for the same reason, I wonít either.
God, I had the time to finish reading the Californian Driverís Handbook tonight, I thought I would never get the chance since we were spending so much time on the phone. I guess it is reasonable for his to still want a life. I am now going to read the online tutorial of the driving testÖ oh someone please shoot me!
It is the third
time, yes you have heard, the third time I had to pass my driving license! Once
I have noted that one third of the Californian Driving Manual is about Drink and Driving and the consequences and punishments. Way to go, paranoid state! And if you are under 21, beware, they donít want you to drive and they will severely punish you for any infraction. On top of it, you can have to wait another year before having your driving license, or lose it at any time, for infraction not related to driving or the road.
Whoís in charge of these rules and regulations? We should pass them all, one by one, to a general population vote. I would only be prepared to accept this madness if I was certain that more than 50% of the population supports it. However, I would not be surprised to find out that most Californians would support even harsher rules and regulations, if it was possible. Because people have gone crazy. As simple as that, no other explanation.
It is now 11h39 pm.
One look at the photo of my little Norton, and I bitterly regret not having
called him tonight. It is now too late to call. He is worth it, I will him
tomorrow. And now I am debating whether I should send him a text message. I
think I will. Well, I canít, my mobile is still set for the
Letís just hope that tomorrow he will be willing to speak. If not, then the message could not be any clearer. And I will get it. And then, he can spend as much time as he wants on the dating website, Iím sure with a bit of luck it wonít be another year before he meets someone up to his standards. I just wish then that these people would not just let you believe all that crap just before letting you down. I never experienced that before, which is why I still give him the benefit of the doubt. Tomorrow night everything will be back to normal, weíll have a long conversation and I will understand that I was worrying for nothing.
8 December 2005
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After all my adventures with my phones, I came back home, called my baby, he was not in the mood to talk. He was awaiting a call from some colleague and could barely speak to me. Four miles I did for him tonight, to hear his voice! Almost destroy everything in my flat for him and he could not speak to me! I was in quite a mood. Thankfully I did not let him see this side of me.
But everything I said was bitter, negative, on the edge. You should have heard my speech about the turn of the new century, and any significance it could have had, when Jesus-Christ could be just a figment of the imagination of some twisted people, and that his date of birth has been established as, at the very least, 24 years after the year zero. God, I could have gone all night about that crap! But I stopped myself, too late Iím afraid.
What do I care
about Jesus-Christ anyway!? What meaning does this has on my wasted life in
All right. I will calm down. This has been a weird day after all. And everything still works, apart from my phone. Itís going back tomorrowÖ
10 December 2005
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The one sentence in the song Nothingís Impossible from Depeche Mode that was not applicable to me is:
I still believe in love at first sight
My Norton. Whom I fell in love with without even having met him. A photo. If this is not first sight, what is? Same for him, if I can believe what he said tonight on the phone. He would not bullshit me, would he? He had plenty of opportunities to tell me to get lost.
On the contrary, another long phone conversation tonight is very much a contradiction to everything I had been thinking lately, as I felt he was trying to avoid speaking with me on the phone. And now it looks like he might work on Sunday. I cannot accuse him of trying to not meet me again, unless he is inventing it and he is not working. Which I doubt.
Perhaps he has something to hide. It could explain why he wishes to make sure I am really biting the bait before meeting me. It would make things easier if it was the case, I doubt what it is that he hides is that bad anyway. And on the phone, his voice, it is so comforting, so reassuring. His personality is so wonderful, everything about him.
And I know he is still slim, his ID has been verified along with his weight and height. Maybe as he said, it has just been bad luck from the start. In the meantime we have developed quite a love relationship at a distance. It must mean something.
My biggest pain is
the pain I would cause Stephen by going any further with Norton. I would so
hate to have to tell him that it is over, Iíve met someone else in
It might not come to that, at this time I donít need to think too much about it. The chances it would actually work with Norton are very slim indeed. I would be lucky to even hold him in my arms for one night. Iím afraid of how he will react, because Iím very much under his spell and I would cuddle him as if I would like to melt into him. He might not be prepared for that.
Iím too ready to just fall head over heels, and become his slave. However I donít need much to get back to reality and accept that none of this is real or would ever be, despite his nice words to the contrary.
So cheer up
people, it might never come to that. With any luck this is just something to
help me survive the loneliness in
That would also be acceptable. With a bit more sex than what we have been used to, or even affection.
Well, if I succeed this trade in, almost as if I was speaking of a car, I would be very lucky indeed. My third boyfriend might be my best yet, physically and mentally, and theyíve all been great. I never thought it possible that I could strike a third time lucky, and perhaps experience something even better.
Of course, perhaps
all of this is just in my imagination, but it looks like it could become real.
And I donít remember having wished for it consciously either, must have been
unconscious. But it still works, you can dream the life you want and it
happens. So letís wish a lot of happiness, at work as well. Letís change our
attitude and start to finally enjoy this life in
13 December 2005
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Something is developing with my Kiddo, we speak on the phone almost everyday, we sound like we are very much in love. Even if I have not seen him last Sunday and that he has already told me that I wonít see him next Sunday. He has to visit his aunt again, to celebrate Christmas earlier since they wonít be together at Christmas.
I know many people
who would have already told him to get lost, but our phone calls give me a lot
of hope. His deep voice is very reassuring, his whole personality also, I just
wish I could meet him once. God knows when that will be nowÖ in the new year
perhaps. At least it prevents me from meeting other people, I am still faithful
to my baby in
And now, what you
have been waiting for. I have made a new friend who is connected with the great
My motto is to
believe them until they give me a reason not to. Of course, once you start
wondering about the truth, it is difficult to judge. Since there is the
unlikely or improbable to take into account, which could very well be true. We
After reading my
Mycroft Holmes Blog in
Now, I know it is unlikely and improbable that someone would like to help you, after seeing a glimpse of your potential through an anonymous blog, however I have not found any crack yet in his arguments and he has now seen my full website and my true potential.
Already that he does not wish to have sex with me is a good indication that this is not what he is after. Ok, he did not tell the whole truth. He is no body builder and the first time I saw him, I thought I could not kiss him as he is not my type. I donít really like people in a sexual way when theyíre from the red headed league (reference to Sherlock Holmes).
However after one full night speaking to him and his creativity, imagination and genius, I was quite ready to jump in his arms. Weird how life can make things happen. It did not happen however and it is just as well.
He is a
heterosexual kind of block who apparently had a series of misfortunes with the ladies.
And now he believes he should try the gay world, he is not sure of what he is.
There seems to be a lot of that kind of strange animal in
However that part of his profile was true, he only wish to meet body builders who are very slim. Not exactly me. And moreover, he says he never had sex with a man before. Now, that is getting closer to the improbable.
However he was not a full member of this dating website until recently, he became one to talk to me. So it would have been difficult for him to meet anyone there until now, even if he says he receives something like 300 messages a day, which is also improbable. I can go days without receiving a single message. However I am not stating that I am body builder who is extremely good looking, without a photo to back it up. It could explain his success on that website and my failure.
So he spent a lot of time on the phone after our first meeting, apologizing because he thought he misled me since we did not have sex. And I had to tell him finally that I had my Kiddo and that I would much prefer to remain faithful to him, even if we have not met yet in over a month. That seems to have made him happy, I think, and he felt less guilty after that.
The surprise did not end there. He is a writer, but for music. He writes songs, and composes, etc. So first he made me listen to that song that was some sort of a clone of a Celine Dion song, the Titanic. He recorded it in a studio with a woman, and now wants to sell it so some famous singer can turn it into a number one hit, including hopefully Celine Dion.
So he put the CD in the system, and I am listening to it, and then something strange happened. Despite the fact that it is very similar to Celine Dion, the song is actually different and certainly a number one hit! I looked at his bedroom that he rents, how poorly he lives, and then I realized that this guy had a lot of talent and would soon live in a mansion.
At the end of the song he looked at me puzzled, he thought I would say that I did not like the song. In fact I was speechless. For the first time in my life, I would imagine, as it takes a lot to impress me. I am so disconnected from everything.
Of course, I thought right there that this was a fluke. A lucky song, sounds easy to do, he did it, god knows, anyone with any talent might be able to sit down and copy a song? But then he played many other songs of different styles and I was convinced the guy knew what he was doing. He is some sort of musical genius, or at the very least, a very capable one who, as he says, is just about to make it big on the music scene.
I actually enjoyed being there listening to him play on his piano, it reminded me of those long nights when my first boyfriend was playing his compositions and wanted me to listen. He never went anywhere with them, despite being great songs. He did not have the determination, which is an essential component of success.
So, why contact me then if he is a musical writer and composer? He wants to help, he has friends in the business, one main actor who has been around for many decades, who also was in many series of Star Trek. And another writer, who brought us some of the biggest sci-fi films ever made. He intends to present me to them saying that I have a lot of potential, and apparently these people are willing to help people with talent.
That is the part that is too good to be true. And it even makes me feel uncomfortable. What would I say when I meet these people? Apparently it is not the first time that my friend presents people with a lot of potential to his friends. And he says that I am the one with the most talent and potential, of all the ones he presented to them.
So assuming they
are his friends - and he wanted to show me that he had their phone numbers on
his phone, and I stopped him - then I may actually meet these people and god
knows what would happen then. I have no reason to believe he is lying since
there is nothing to gain in all of this for him. No reason to lie that I can
see. So perhaps the leitmotiv that everyone is a liar in
Now, my friend was also a security guard at one of the big studios, and met many actors this way. He was also an actor, he failed to mention that until very late in the conversation. He showed me autographed photos, and one of them was him with, at the back, all the films and series and plays he appeared in. He has mostly been a special guest star on series, or small roles in movies, but surprisingly enough, all the most important and interesting ones. He has now put that on hold until he can succeed in music.
As if this was not enough, the guy is also into Theoretical Physics, and has read a lot about it, and developed his own theories about the structure of the universe. At that point I did not think he would be able to impress me, however he came up with this extravagant theory of how the universe could look like and I was genuinely impressed to the point of being convinced I was sitting in front of a genius.
I know enough to not be fooled in this matter. I was ready to laugh internally at his great discovery, which in essence would not have been one. But this image of the universe is haunting me now, and even if somehow it could be disproved, the sheer fact that he had the imagination to come up with something like that is sufficient to tell me that the guy is no ordinary guy.
I am the sixth person in the world to whom he has told what his ideas were. All of the others had to sign an agreement of non-disclosure. Why did he decide to trust me? Especially that many people before, apparently, have stolen his things. I come across as someone very genuine, apparently. And I am, he certainly does not need to worry about me, I would never steal any of his ideas.
concept of having to get friends to sign agreements of non-disclosure is quite
remarkable. Only in
And now I have to go back to bed. I feel very sick.
I have been awakened
by my new friend from
This is a very interesting dilemma. Because even if I needed help, of course I would never ask him to come all the way from North Hollywood. It would be taking the piss and no one in their right mind would keep a friend taking the piss. So why ask? I donít want to read too much into this, I think he is just a kind hearted person with a lot of time on his hands.
He called to let me know he contacted his friend actor to tell him about me. Apparently that actor asked him many questions about me before considering meeting me. And then, he asked the magic question. He was wondering if I knew anything about parallel universes.
Now, this would also be time for alarm bells, and would be from the domain of the impossible. How probable is it that they are working on a film about parallel universes (now in post-production), that something is not right and they would need me to sort it out? As a matter of fact, I am an authority on the subject, having written the only full report about it you can find on the Internet. Could not be better, really.
If all true, I will meet that guy within two weeks, close to Christmas. I will probably impress him with my potential and aptitudes, and start working with them on their projects.
From the point of view of destiny, once again I must have built up this whole reality, as it seems so unlikely. I donít even need to wish for my future to be bright, it seems all of this was put in motion at the time when I was hoping for some external help to get me out of the conference world. I might be seeing a way out of this after allÖ
15 December 2005
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My first day back in the office after being sick for three days. I was expecting troubles. However yesterday I stopped myself to work on this changing the future or parallel universe thing, I said to myself that everything would be fine in the office, everything will be great from now on, and being sick will be fine. And sure enough, everyone else has been sick, my valley girl has missed two days and a half work, three other people missed days as well, so there was no way they could think I was faking it. Thank God. And everything is fine.
I also said to myself that I would meet those actors/producers and I will definitely work with them. That is not very hard to imagine that it will come true anyway, from a destiny point of view. It is obvious I am here for just that and that it would have happened eventually. But sooner rather than later is what counts, I need to get the ball rolling before Christmas and I need to work very hard at convincing them that I am indispensable, because of my imagination and knowledge in the science and science-fiction areas.
And the third thing I wished and convinced myself that would happen, is that I can no longer wait another maybe two to three weeks before meeting my Kiddo, things need to move faster and something needs to develop now. Sure enough, yesterday on the phone my Kiddo said that his sister was sick, and might no longer wish to go celebrate an early Christmas at this aunt they have somewhere in California. I might meet my new baby in less than three to four days. Iím sure it will happen now.
Yesterday my conversation with Norton was very deep indeed. He told me more that I could have ever imagined possible, especially that I am still a stranger to him. Again another one of his generation, he took a lot of drugs in his days and still is addicted to some pills called Vitago or something. I donít understand how painkillers are supposed to give you a high, but somehow he always manages to get 200 of them and get through that within a few months. If that was all, it would still be OK.
He told me something that disturbed me so much, I could not sleep last night, and all day today I could only think of it and him, the poor guy. This would have happened in a film, and we would not even think twice about it, but when it actually happened for real, it is something I canít even begin to grasp.
I feel I should
not be telling this in my blog, by respect for him. It is something after all
that he never told anyone in his family for decades. And it took his mother to
be on her death bed for him to admit to her that dark moment of his existence
This will remain in my hidden blog and will only be published much later, in a book, if ever a book is published out of this blog. It will not go online.
He told me that in
his early 20s he married a wonderful American-Indian who looked like Catherine
Zeta-Jones, but even better looking. They had a baby girl together and lived
Until the ex-boyfriend, a Cherokee, came up with a gun and shot both his wife and his child in the head. After that he went back home to his family, depressed for a long time, and never told anyone even that he got married to the most beautiful woman on earth and had a wonderful little girl with her. All that was now gone as if it had never existed but in his mind. Not telling anyone also helped Iím sure to convince himself that none of it actually took place.
Strange enough he mentioned parallel universes to me, as if I could not run away from this. When he was in a coma three years ago, when he woke up two months later, he said he was convinced he was with them both. I asked him if she had given him a message, and he said yes, that it was time to get back to reality.
This was difficult thing to admit to me, and he kind of surprised himself in a way afterwards, as if he could not believe he could have told me this so early on in a relation. He says that he feels so comfortable with me, he feels he can tell me anything.
The poor Kiddo has not gone through one life crisis, but two. The comma and the killing of his family by an American-Indian who never had to pay for his crime, since this fell under the law of the American-Indian community and they perhaps felt it was justified or did not know how to deal with this, and finally did nothing, Iím not sure.
This story certainly did add a new dimension to my Norton, he is now certainly a four dimensional person to me, the fourth dimension being time, his past. I really feel for him and it makes me love him even more. I canít wait to take him in my arms to reassure him that there is more to life, and that someone can still love him genuinely and share great moments together.
Of course all of this would be at the expense of my long time relationship with Stephen. And this is also something I will eventually have to deal with and is not going to be easy. I sometimes wonder how all of this will turn out and if I can actually decide myself how I wish this to turn out. And if so, what I should decide. But I guess I donít have all the data to make any decision yet.
Norton often wonders how his daughter would have grown and if she would have children by now. He said he could now be a grand father. Heek! What a thought! He is only 43. I kind of donít really like dealing with people who were heterosexuals in their younger years and decided to be gay much later in life.
He says that without this horrible event, he might still be happy married right now. And this pushed him to the limits of the existence, and it would explain why he took so many drugs afterwards, though he says it is mostly in his past now. Thank God.
I suppose one generation over mine, you could not be gay even if you were, and you had to marry. It would explain why so many forced themselves into marriages and babies, and are now sort of regretting this, though none of them would change anything to how everything in their lives happened.
Maybe I should go
for people my age, who have been gay all their lives and were not pushed
towards a life they never really wanted in the first place. They seem to have awakened
quite late in the
However people my age are like me. They have experienced nothing, they could be over 30 years old and not have experienced anything. Not to say that I would have liked them to have been drugged to full capacity for ten years of their lives, but still, I would like to have something to put my teeth into, so they too could become at least three dimensional.
Which bears the question, am I at all a three or four dimensional person myself? Or just two dimensional? I have not gone through any real crisis, and yet I have been more than willing to end my life many times because I could not see the point of living. I have not even known what death really meant, since no one really close to me ever died, except my grand-parents and I was not close to them at all. I was already gone when they died, and sometimes I have to think hard to remember if they are still alive or not.
Perhaps it is better this way. I did not need more life crisis just to be able to say that I have lived and that I have a lot of experience. I suffered enough without crisis, anymore and perhaps I would no longer be here right now. And I will eventually have to deal with the death of my parents, I guess. Though it could still be a long time before that happens.
Oh Norton, my poor little baby, who has gone through so much. I know you probably donít need my support, but I would love to give it to you all the same. And I look forward talking to you tonight and meeting with you this weekend.
18 December 2005
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I am now outside on
the balcony of my studio, it is cold and I am overlooking the car park with all
the people walking around. The musician from
I have to say that
it has been the weirdest day of my life. He drank something like 12 beers and
half a bottle of
So I assumed that he wanted something more, but since he never had sex with a man except that 18 year old God, I thought he did not know how to tell me. Why else would you stay at someone else's place for over 12 hours, repeating yourself like he did? Well I assumed wrongly, and the next thing that happened was probably the most embarrassing moment of my life.
He eventually came to bed beside me since he was too drunk. He wanted to drive, that would have been crazy. So I got closer, it has been forever since I had any sort of affection whatsoever. He did not push me away. So I got my clothes off, I took his clothes off, and we stayed in bed naked in each others arms for perhaps 10 minutes.
His brain went into overdrive, he spoke a lot about that 18 year old kid with whom it was a sort of a dominating relationship on the part of the kid. It is now turning against him since the kid claims he was not 18 yet, when apparently he was.
He was rock solid, he would not move, he was in some sort of frozen state, perhaps a deep psychological blockage. And we talked about it quite openly, he confirmed it. And eventually he said something like he did not want to hurt me and I understood that this was not going to happen. So we went to sleep.
This whole thing has been exhausting, and I cried again Friday night, and this morning, and I almost did now thinking about my cat. I cannot deny that I am an emotional wreck.
I feel completely abandoned by Norton, who now tells me that the day we will meet will be Christmas day, next Saturday. Except that he did not work yesterday and ignored all my phone calls all day and the previous day.
We would have had the perfect chance to meet, I even had a car for once to come and pick him up, and I said so on his answering machine. And yet it was more important for him to do his washing and go all around town to buy some stuff he ordered at some shop.
This is getting beyond the joke, our phone calls now are just a long litany of complaints on my part and apologies on his part. Talking on the phone has now become too painful.
So I re-invited
Stephen to come to
You might think that at least I have a friend, however after I tell you everything he said to me in the last 12 hours, you will understand that we are from different planets and that I cannot afford to spend 12 hours talking like this on a regular basis. It is simply killing me.
Well, you remember that I was kind of thinking that perhaps I could influence my future. Well, my friend travels through time and through space using his mind. He can tell you exactly what will happen to anyone in the future, and answer any question about anything. He is connected to some inexhaustible source of information and can get all the information he needs from there. He calls himself an emitter-receiver.
He can also discuss with any dead people, and this in an awaken state. When he composes his music, Mozart and Bach are there next to him dictating what to write. He also met John Lennon and Elton John on the second ring of Saturn. Elton John sang a song for him, and John Lennon told him he was happy, or something like that, I can't remember now.
As to why he could actually meet Elton John on another planet while Elton is still alive, he says that it does not matter, what he connects to is out of time. The past, the present and the future, it is all the same thing.
I am now alone, he is finally gone. It is 9h24 pm, can you believe? He has been here almost 24 hours. Why I did not kick him out sooner, is because he came back with revenge with a new series of statements about his kind of mind powers.
It would take me forever to transcribe here everything he has said, but suffice to say that he is a psychic medium. He can predict the future, see ghosts, feel vibes, tell you anything about anyone instantly.
And then he went on about his vivid dreams about the past, probably of past lives, where he can live periods of 10 years in a matter of minutes. He has dťjŗ vu that he sees first consciously in dreams and then it happens a few days or months later.
He can cure people from any disease and basically cured his own heart problems by thought and concentration alone. Now his doctors are saying that this is a miracle. He also has a phenomenal memory. Never had to study to pass with straight As in school, and can memorize a whole film script of 300 pages after only one or two readings.
However, he never experienced temporal causality loops, or time loops, my favorite. He never relived the same events twice in real life. I would have been skeptical if he had said that he did experience that. Which makes me wonder, how could I not be skeptical about all that he said in the last 24 hours? Oh, I forgot to ask him about aliens.
He said that he never before told anyone all that stuff, and that he told me more than he ever did in his entire life to anyone else. Youíve got to give them that, Americans are just dying to tell you all their most precious secrets. They barely hide anything once you gain their trust. And I am so curious myself, I always ask just about all possible questions.
So, where does that leave him, then? He is the most psychic person alive. Funny enough, this is the story of one of my film scripts. And yet, he does not come empty handed, he is very much believable, and his achievements so far speak for themselves.
Is it possible? If
not, he certainly has a lot of imagination. And his brain is definitely about
to split one way or another from a huge surcharge. He lives at
At this point,
most people would have disconnected and told him that he was full of shit. Not
me, whether he is that most psychic person alive or simply just completely
disturbed in his mind, I have never met someone like that before and I doubt I
will ever again. This is
At the same time the guy is definitely troubled. Such a genius who knows everything about everything, and can fill a room with his confidence, breaks down completely at the simple idea that he is gay. He cannot accept himself for what he is.
I have learnt that he never had sex with any of his girlfriends, finishing the relationship just before sex was about to happen. I guess it would have been over with me in that bed today when he said that he did not want to hurt me. So he also appears to have a problem with men, and I just wonder if he will ever be able to overcome it. In essence, sexually, he is a very dysfunctional person.
What did not help his case, is that young trouble maker with whom some little things happened, before both he and his father turned against him. The kid is a menace, he has a criminal record the size of a dictionary and apparently destroyed many lives before.
You know you are
The favorite hobby of that young person is to torture and kill animals, and he does that on a regular basis. He tried to kill both my friend and his father. He was also very much abused and tortured as a kid, apparently he is the most abused kid alive. No wonder he turned into the devil himself. And now theyíre joking, saying that he has the famous 666 mark on his scalp.
According to my musician who can predict the future, in five years time the kid will be all over the news in a story involving hostages and killings. And somehow, my friend knows he will be involved in that horrible story.
There is so much more I could tell, however there will be at least another few books written about that kid in the near future, and oh, theyíre making a movie about this. So you will know more than me very soon.
The sexual encounter between that young person and my musician is now destroying the life of my friend. He cannot stop talking about it, it pours out by every pore. You can tell that this is the kind of thing that could lead to suicide.
He better start writing that book soon, so he can exorcize this whole thing. Oh, and he will also write a few songs about this, he has one already done and it is pretty good. That song will end up in another movie, so then again, you will hear all about it very soon.
My God, I had not
realized that I just had to destroy a few lives, play mind games like crazy and
kill a few animals to become the talk of the whole world (meaning
I would like to be as celebrated as this kid, he certainly can be proud of all his achievements. He is now part of history, and is about to become global very soon. Well done!
24 December 2005
Kiddo Blog in
I could have met
He also took the time to go to the cinema to see that Mountain Brokeback thingy with Jake Gylenhaal, something about a gay relationship. Iím sure Iíve got both the title of the film and the name of the actor wrong. Again, he preferred going to the cinema instead of coming here.
Something is wrong, it makes no sense to me. After six weeks of talking on the phone every other day with someone I was hoping to start a relationship, I would have jumped at the chance to go and meet him as soon as possible. I guess all humans have not been made the same.
I thought it was fear on his part, and then it would make sense to come in the morning. If it turns out that he does not like me, or that I donít like him, he would not be stuck here for the night. He could just leave or, as he said, we could become friends.
It is also possible that it has been such a long time for him, since he actually had a real date which is not just sex, that he needed to prepare both psychologically and physically.
He bleached his
hair today and he will be wearing tomorrow what he most prefers to wear.
Something that he rarely wears. I said, oh my god, he is a drag queen! He will
arrive bleached with a dress and full make up on! He said no, that what he
wears is being worn somewhere else in the
Every person I
have met here who are really into films and
Though I have to
admit that I am annoyed when I tell my friends my address, I write
So my Kiddo has been preparing for days for this famous first meeting tomorrow. If not weeks. It is a good indication that he does feel this is quite important to him, that he looks his best for when we meet.
What I interpreted as a lack of interest, was more a worry of rejection, I would say. And meeting once might change all that. And then I would hope to meet him at least once a week. That would be too nice.
So today he really
enjoyed himself, he went to
I also have to say that this is my first Christmas where I did not have to suffer Christmas music or the fever of Christmas in the shops, since I have avoided it all. For me, it has been business as usual, with nothing to remind me of it. Considering that last year I had 20 days off over the Christmas holiday, and this year it is merely two long weekends of three day each, then there was no Christmas for me this year. And I have to admit, I prefer it this way.
Dear, dear, dearÖ tomorrow I will be meeting my Kiddo! I cannot believe it! I cannot stop thinking that somehow there will be an earthquake to prevent me from meeting him. Why, oh why did it take so long for this meeting to take place? There is a reason for everything, though I cannot see why in this case. Except that there is now such a build up to this meeting, I am expecting to meet God himself. And if I donít, I will be very disappointed indeed.
On the other hand, letís not forget that I am no longer that cute little thing that I was. Without these long conversations on the phone, he might not have wanted to start a relationship with me. So his plans to make me bite for such a long time, to already develop something before we meet, will at least work both ways. He must already feels like he knows me. Like I do know him. And I cannot wait any longer to meet him and fall in his arms. It will be so nice! Especially that I need it so badly. And Iím afraid, it would not work if it was anyone else. You cannot get what I need from a quick sex session with a stranger. My Kiddo is someone I could fall in love with.
It is Christmas in
one minute now. Thatís it, it is now Christmas. I just burped, but at least I
did not fart. What a way to celebrate Christmas on my own. My baby has been
It is so dangerous, what if I were to fall in love? Should I have put a stop to all this while I still could? Can we stop our march towards love?
At the moment I can only think of my meeting with the Kiddo tomorrow morning. I donít know what will happen, or what to expect. I have such high expectations, it better be good.
25 December 2005
Kiddo Blog in
It is already 20
I hope he understands that if he does not show up today, it is finished. I will not be calling him anymore, I will no longer hope to meet him. The only exception to this would be if he were to admit why he has been so reluctant to meeting me in the last few weeks. And if he has a good reason, then I might continue. By a good reason, I mean some sort of psychological blockage or another boyfriend or girlfriend on the side. That would be acceptable, but he will have to admit something quite big for me to continue this charade.
I have been warned about people making a fool out of yourself on these dating websites. And I have to say, it is starting to look just like that with my Kiddo. Well, it looked like that for many weeks now, and somehow he always succeeded in convincing me that it was not so.
I am about to call again his two phone numbers, it would be the third time in the last hour. He turned me into some sort of freak who now calls and calls his potential boyfriend when there is no such thing. I hate it.
My god, he will be here within 15 minutes! Iím sorry I doubted himÖ
He is now gone. He stayed less than six hours. The reason being that his sister was coming back from wherever she was, and he needed to be home for her. Why? Because she worries a lot for him when he is not around, he could lose consciousness at any moment, as he did three months ago. This is so touching, that he would need to go back home so his sister does not worry. I suspect it is also the reason why it took so long for him to finally meet me.
The other reason must have something to do with the fact that he is not 43, but 53. And he certainly made the mistake of the century by showing me his driving license, while I was certainly not asking to see it. The number 6 before the 2, on his birthday, has obviously been changed. He claims that they made a mistake and made him 10 years younger. And he needed to be older to take care of his mother affairs after she died.
Nice try, but I donít believe it. Iím not certain when his mother died, but it was within the last 15 years. So he would have been old enough to take care of everything after her death. In fact, the only reason I could think of for changing his birthday, is to look 10 years younger so he could find a nice young boyfriend.
He is also the only single person I have met on that dating website who has a verified identification. And now I understand why, because to fool the system is as simple as changing one number on oneís driving license. And a scan or a photocopy of that card sent by post would fool anyone.
So it is pretty clear that he is 20 years older than me, not 10. And Iím sorry to say, it makes a huge difference. It also shows in his face, he has lost most of his hair on half of his head, and his hair chest is mostly white. No wonder he needed to bleach his hair and eyebrows before meeting me.
I have been fooled
before about age. My actual boyfriend in
As actually, to tell the truth, if my Norton had told me he was 53 instead of 43, there is no way I would have been talking on the phone with him for six weeks and that I would have met him today. So I feel betrayed again. I never thought I could have been betrayed like that. The photo on the website is very old indeed, even if he claims it was taken in the last 12 months.
Gosh I have been stupid. I must be the only damn person on that dating website whoís not lying. At the same time, I certainly will avoid any kind of surprise like that. And I certainly also got everyone frightened to contact me in the first place. It is their lost, because they would be more secured with me, since with anyone else it would be surprise time once they get there.
So I was walking towards him, he was waiting on the corner after he got out of the bus. Even from afar, I knew he was not the guy I was expecting. Once I got closer, I even realized that I would never have recognized him if he had not recognized me. I can tell you that I was not happy in my mind. And that I completely understood why he waited so long to finally meet me.
His bleached hair
might have hidden his white hair, but it certainly also made them look very
much white, so it did not help his case at all. He looked older than he might
have been. My Stephen in
26 December 2005
Kiddo Blog in
I fell asleep quickly yesterday and I did not have the time to finish my story with the Kiddo. Despite all, he has a very nice body, with a nice dick, nice legs and a wonderful little ass. He is slim and he looks great in his jeans. Only his face looks older, the rest is fine. Which makes me wonder, can a 53 year old have such a great body? So we had sex all afternoon, and it was wonderful.
And call me once
he was back home, and I fell in love again with that voice of his, which sounds
totally different in person and does not have the same effect. So something
might develop with the Kiddo in time, but not really. He will only be able to
see me once every two weeks I would imagine, he is not exactly the cute little
thing I thought he would be, and all of this made me appreciate my Stephen in
I am now convinced that I wonít me anyone better than my Stephen and I renew my vows to him on the phone. I told him that I was ready for a second ten years term with him, and that I would very much love to finish my days with him. In a way, it is great news that I now know that I wonít fall in love with the Kiddo. His head looks too weird, however I donít know what the future has in store for me.
Today I need to
work most of the day on my conference, and I also need to check out the shops
around for specials on TVs and DVD recorders. I donít suppose their Tivo
machines would be half price? They already have a $200 rebate on these
machines, that you need to get back through the post. Sorry, I canít wait that
long and live without that $200 at the moment. So I canít afford a Tivo box.
And I canít spend too much either, since I will have to sell all my stuff
before I go back to
But God, I
spotted† Sony DVD Recorder which can also
record 80 hours of TV, and that is the same as a Tivo without any monthly
subscription. I want that machine, it costs $800. I would leave with it for
27 December 2005
Kiddo Blog in
The most gorgeous guy contacted me today on the dating website. I had never seen someone so perfect. Of course, not wanting to lie, I send them three more recent photos, and now I know I will never hear from him again. Anyway, for one full second there, I was allowed to dream.
Yesterday I deeply needed to hear the voice of my Kiddo, I called, left a message, and of course, not understand my desperation, he never called back. Well tonight I donít feel the need to talk to him. Iím listening to The Smiths videos, Iím drinking beers (my fourth one now), so I have all the fuel I need.
Funny how Morrisseyís songs over the years, always appeared to be perfect for the moments I was living, and how perfectly I was thinking everything he sings about. Must be destiny, I always thought. However, he was just very honest in his songs, and this universal. Which brings the question, is anyone else actually honest when they write their songs? Since I cannot connect to any of them, I guess the answer is no.
Which brings me to
my own books and how dark they are, and honest, and how people connect to them.
I guess to find people as depressed as you are, is a comforting thought and
ultimately make you happy. Glad that such black material could actually help
the people on the same wavelength. Of course, it is completely incompatible
with anyone who I actually happy to live this life. Those people need to go see
their doctor, no matter how much it costs here in the
6 January 2006
Kiddo Blog in
I cannot believe what I have heard tonight! This is just too much!
Dear me, it is nearly 3 am, I am working tomorrow, and yet I have to write down here what happened to me last weekend and tonight. Because both these crisis are so at opposite ends, that I cannot understand how in hell I could have been so blind.
Never in my life
did I meet someone I simply could not read. And yet, all these possibilities
have ran through my mind, it is why after all I invited Leonardo over last
weekend. Leonardo is my musician from
That is why I invited him for a long night discussion that I knew would have terrible repercussions over my life. Sure enough, the next day he was still in my apartment when I had Stephen in England freaking out because he could not reach me, at a moment of crisis where his phone had been disconnected, with no way for him to pay the bill until I had cleared out with British Telecom that they had overcharged us by at least £79.
At the same time,
the next morning, Monday morning after the New Year, was the day my Kiddo was
supposed to come over. And at 2 pm Leonardo was still in my flat, I could not
get rid of him, and I had so many things to sort out. I also had to pay for my
apartment and my own phone bill here in
It is of course that I did not really care for the Leonardo apart from interesting conversations. That is all he could have provided at that point in time. I had already gone into bed with him once, and I was still wearing the scars of that famous embarrassing night where I have humiliated myself to a level I never though I would reach in my lifetime. Well, the second time around was even worse, if that is at all possible.
He picked me up
early in the morning and we went to a car auction somewhere on
We went to
After that we went
through the canals in
We then went to eat in a restaurant serving mainly chicken, so there was not much for me to eat. And I invited him to my place for a coffee. I felt like it, I was hoping somehow we would end up in bed and that this time it would be different.
I donít know what went through my mind, I must have been crazy to think it would be any different from the first time, where he was just a plank of wood on the bed. But this is human nature, hope and faith, so I invited him.
We took the scenic
route. We came back to
A little further down we stopped somewhere to look at the canyon and the mountains, and I knew this was what I needed to see, to appreciate, to witness. And it is so close to me, and yet unreachable without a car. I truly loved it.
So back in Woodland Hills, we talked, and we talked, and we talked. At least we talked about our film script that we are now working on together. I had told him the whole story in my mind that his structure of the universe had inspired me, and it was a starting point.
Eventually it was time to go to bed. What a mistake that was. He was again completely frozen. This time I decided to suck his dick, as he mentioned that, and he also did mentioned it last time. But he was so cold and out of passion of any kind the previous time, I never went that far then. This time I did.
He said he liked it, but thatís all, and I donít even believe him. I really did want to take him in my arms, share any kind of affection with him, but it was obviously a one way thing. I was embarrassing myself. The guy had no interest in me whatsoever, and yet, he let all that happened, he came to bed with me. What the fuck!?
I forgot to say that before that, that night, I was in my underwear all night with a T-Shirt. However it was not supposed to be sexual. The guy stays in my place over 24 hours at a time, I cannot treat him like a guest, I have to go on with my normal life while he is here. Simple.
But he took his shirt off and stayed like that all night. And yet I thought this was just because he thought this is what I wanted. He was just trying to please me, as he is a kind of guy who cannot say no and will do anything he can to please you.
At some point in bed I became more adventurous. I had my dick over his and I kissed him on the lips. Just that, no more. It did not seem to mean anything at the time, but it did a few days later, so I have heard tonight.
And do you know how this second night in my bed ended? I had my dick on him and he freaked out! He said: I donít want a penis on me, it is a real turn off for me!
Now, please, tell me, who in this world could continue to have sex with a man who would tell you something like that? No one in the real world, thatís for sure. So we went to bed after that, I can assure you.
The guy cannot feel a dick on him without having a panic attack? Gosh, he must be straight then, but then, he does not like women! He must have the biggest blockage possible in his mind then. And that is even worse!
I was shaken by this whole thing. The next day I had only one idea, to get rid of him as quickly as possible so I could move on with my life which, because of him, was already going into the gutter.
I donít sleep anymore, I cannot communicate with my Kiddo or my boyfriend, I canít even pay my bills since I never get the chance to go to reception. I waste long weekends I could have used to write, just to talk to the guy. A nightmare.
So the next day I told him, I said that we will never again be intimate. It is clear he does not desire me, or even if he does, he is so blocked psychologically that I thought, good luck to any guy who will have sex with him, it will be a disaster. And thank god, I thought, I will be nowhere near them when it happens sometimes in the future.
So time passed, I actually wrote eight pages of that script we discussed, a friend of his had the time to die in between and he spent two days with the wife (that is the second time he tells me one of his friend dies and the wife suddenly calls to him for a shoulder to cry on), and then he read what I wrote.
I was not expecting anything, I thought he would say it was all crap. It seems that it opened the floodgate. The floodgate of truth. Came a bit late, I have to say, and at such an unexpected moment, that I am totally confused and donít know what to do nor can I understand the implications.
Tonight the guy told me he was in love with me! He said I love you on the phone! I could not believe it. Of course, that came after everything else he finally admitted, and as I thought, all of this was not meaningless, something did happen between him and I.
What I did not know, what I could not suspect, is that it had a much more profound impact, and was running much deeper, than I could have ever guessed.
I think telling him that nothing intimate should ever again happen between us, and that he should definitely try to meet a guy on that dating website, that was it for him. It was like telling him that I could no longer put up with this, and that I was not willing to. What we have would remain a friendship and a working relationship, thatís it.
I think he then went into panic mode. He clearly never intended to meet anyone else, as he was claiming before. What he wanted all along, was what I suspected, and yet, he managed to convince me that it was not the case.
He wanted to unfroze, take me in his big arms, kiss me, whatever, but he could not. Something to do with his parents who were too distant and cold, and the straight guys with whom he had sex before, where showing any affection would be laughed upon and destroy everything. Because apparently, having sex with straight guys, is just about sucking each otherís dick and thatís it. Anything else would be considered being gay, and that is just not acceptable.
Oh God, why do you send me such a retard? A word he cannot actually stand, and when I use it, he corrects me, I need to say mentally handicapped people. And thatís what he is.
So tonight he said that he cared about me much more than I could imagine or be aware of. That was news to me. Nothing ever at any time suggested any of that. And now we have jumped just about any steps in between, the guy is in love with me!
I donít know what to think anymore. I donít know where I stand now with my Kiddo and my boyfriend. This was unexpected to say the least. And he even had the guts to insult me. He said that for one full hour that last weekend, he observed me very carefully. This is when he realized that he loved me, that I was somehow very beautiful inside and outside, and that the only thing that was stopping him, was that I was a bit overweight. Well, at least, when I get the truth, I certainly do get it fully. And the thing is I have lost weight since Iím here, a lot, without even trying. Probably because I am so freaked out by what I did, by coming here in the first place, and I am so lost.
And now he seems to have been able to go over that little problem, since everything else about me is so perfect, apparently. What he saw in that hour, I reckon, is what my Kiddo saw instantly after seeing me for less than a minute. My eyes and my smile. The brightness of my eyes. It seems to be able to have quite an effect.
And my Kiddo fell in love right there. It is just unfortunate that his sister keeps him home, or whatever else he has not told me yet. Because it is clear that he wants to come back, but cannot or is stopped by something else, and I donít think it is a lack of time.
So I pretty much already thought it was not going anywhere with the Kiddo. And yet, if he wants and can meet me this weekend, I wonít say no. And I told Leonardo about that, and I certainly donít feel guilty since his admission came a little bit sudden and late. I had already decided that we would never again be intimate, and I was quite adamant about it. Iím not in love, you seeÖ
Which means that this guy, sometimes in the future, will suffer terribly. Because I will let him fall in love completely, for a relationship that I know will never go anywhere. I wonít be able to love him back, I know that. And I certainly donít want an icicle for a boyfriend. For once, I can truly say, I would prefer my porno CDs. It will definitely be more enjoyable.
He wants to learn, at 43. He wants to learn to appreciate sex, something I am quite convinced that is now beyond his reach. He wants to have his first French kiss ever with me, and somehow I feel it will actually disgust him.
Am I willing to do that? To teach him to actually enjoy something that seems to go against his nature? I tell you, I thought he was either straight or that my overweight problem was just too much for him. I thought he would meet the right guy and all his blockage would end. Iím not so sure anymore.
At the very least, after all that he said tonight, I can expect him to actually move a mussel next time he sleeps in my bed. I might even hope that he will take me in his arms. Can I now hope that he will actually enjoy it? God knows.
Can we fall in love with someone, and yet, not desire them sexually? Is he repeating the same pattern that he did with his only true love with that first girlfriend he had? He wanted so much to love her, to enjoy sex with her, and of course it never came true since he was gay. Now I feel that after 43 years, he is so screwed up, that there will be no difference between me and her.
I donít want that.
I donít need that. I donít feel like it. I want to enjoy sex. That is anyway
the only reason why I am not faithful at the moment whilst I am in
Sex with Leonardo is worse than being inexistent, it is a traumatizing experience. Of being told that a dick on him puts him off. And dear me, I have not even tried to French kiss him yet. And he speaks of that simple kiss on the lips I gave him as some sort of milestone in his life. Please, give me a break!
Well, he did say that in his mind, on that level, he was just like a kid. Perhaps this is the secret of writing great film scripts. Perhaps this is all the innocence you need to describe what love is, in a way that none of us, normal people, could ever understand.
Maybe we skipped that step altogether, or it happened for one long second when we were 18, and now it is completely forgotten. I certainly have no clue myself about what love is. For that matter, Iím not sure if I am still capable of feeling anything.
I donít want to think about the consequences of what he has admitted tonight. I just understand that, for him, it was the hardest thing he ever did in his entire life. Iíve got to be sensible about this, Iíve got to be careful not to hurt him.
I canít believe that all this time I thought he was trying to spare me, that he was trying to not hurt me and my feelings, and that is why I thought he went that far. But perhaps it was his initial idea, and then he got caught at his own game.
One hour of intense observation was all that he needed to change his mind about me. And suddenly, the world he lives in, has changed. Love, real love, got into the equation. And now, probably, he is even more screwed up than he ever was before.
Poor him. And I do feel bad about this. I do not wish to be part of someone else suffering. I do not want to be the object of such attention when it is not reciprocated and especially with someone that I had surmised as completely out of order when it comes to the matter of love and sex.
God knows where this will end. What will happen next. What I will be thinking and saying here after the weekend. And actually, this frightens me.
Funny enough, when
I told my mother that I had met this guy in
She said it would
have been nice for me to find love and some sort of secure relationship here in
9 January 2005
Kiddo Blog in
Only three days have passed since my last entry, and yet, I feel it has been more than a week.
I wrote 8 more pages for the script, we are now at 20. He wrote 4. He took forever, but my, it is in the style of a novel, and even poetry. When I read that this morning, I fell off my chair.
First I thought this would not do, our styles are way too different. This is a film script, letís be practical about it, weíre not writing a novel or poetry. Then I felt inadequate, English is after all my second language, and I certainly could make an effort to write like him, but I donít want to. It is the same in French, I want to write what comes naturally, I donít want this to become painful.
The result is of course that some people see in both my French and English, nothing that could be considered literature. And yet I claim to be an author, I have six books published in Paris, I have even written more in English than most authors in their lifetime.
Sometimes it comes back to haunt me, that perhaps I am no author after all, that I simply cannot write in an interesting style. Then I could just try, make an effort, but I donít want to. I would prefer to stop writing altogether, so it is a no win situation.
Some sort of compromise will have to be reached. I will have to polish my style, and he will have to get down a notch in the literary work. Or else, he will have to rewrite everything I write. And it seems to be what he has chosen to do. At the moment, based on all my descriptions of the characters and my main timeline of the events (the short synopsis), he is writing the long synopsis and the story in detail.
This is something I never thought could actually happen. I have never met before anyone who could actually write or really contribute in a writing partnership. I have always been the one doing everything, or almost. Well, that is not true, letís just say that I was not expecting him to take over what I thought I would be doing and that I had been doing so far.
In a way, it is remarkable, especially coming from someone who looks like a truck driver (and he has a truck), or a construction guy with no intelligence. In fact, he appears to be that genius guy who can be creative and excellent at everything he does. And that in itself makes me feel inferior. Something I never felt before, as I had never met anyone I thought was better than me, despite my doubts about my abilities sometimes.
The truth is, I need
that guy. Without him, without his inspiration and talent with English and at
writing, and even the music for the film, and his contacts, and god, what else,
there is no way in hell I could even achieve anything here in
At the same time, I also feel that without my determination, my hard work, my 16 pages written in less than four hours, my whole thinking process, all my ideas which were able to bring all our theories and other inventions together, he could not have got anywhere either. I am the fire in his belly. I am the catalyst. Just as he seems to be for me.
Could it be possible? That each on our own could not accomplish great things, but together we will lay that huge egg that could actually rival The Matrix series? Because our film script at the moment is so complicated, and so ingenious, that it could be compared to The Matrix. Not a poor copy, but an equal. And yet, we did not draw any inspiration from it. I am just talking in terms of scale of the project.
We could also just be dreaming, and this is also important. To be pretentious enough to believe that we could create a revolution and write something as huge as the best sci-fi films out there. Better not think too much about that now, letís just concentrate on the job at hand.
We have not mentioned again his love declaration since it happened. We have only talked about the script. Tomorrow he is sending stuff to his friend actor about me, we were supposed to send what we have so far about the story. But we have decided to work a few more days on it, for greater impact, also because we have discovered that what he has written so far is so good, even it is all based on what I have written and my own ideas, at the same time, he can transform it into something much better. Iím still learning I guess. I just hope Iíll be able to do the same in my other projects, once Iím working on my own. Or else, I will be stuck with him for the rest of my life.
Or his life, which should not be long anyway because of his heart problems. Same for his friend actor, he discovered today that he has a tumor, and perhaps cancer got in there. This is just great, they will all be dead before the movie gets into productionÖ
Perhaps I should stop being creative, maybe there is a link with the life span. Everyone seems to be dying at the moment around my friends, at times it seems it is all they can talk about. And since I have never really experienced that, I can be pretty insensitive at times.
I am still living under the illusion that I am immortal, and that everyone else is as well. The others who dies, they are never connected to me, or to the people I live with, it only happens to others and you read it in the newspapers in between the sports results, something else that is totally meaningless to me.
Today I had some
sort of memory that came back to me. When we were going around
Could I get to that point? Could I fall in love as well? It would certainly make everything much easier for both of us, for both our careers. It is adding a new dimension to it all. Well, he is certainly all that I could hope for, apart from being a Ginger Kid. Even that I was able to get over quite early on. He is a strong man, with strong hands, a well built body, and a bit stupid when it comes to computers and other areas of life like love and sex.
This is so cute,
this is charming. He will also do anything to please me, never contradicting
me, and yet he is very honest. He is such a nice and great guy, and I am almost
realizing this at the same time as I am writing it now. But to replace my baby
who is alone now in
Is this not what I wanted in the first place? Is this not what I wished for and dreamt about for many years? It is now all coming true, and I am fighting it, with all I have.
I thought for a second that the Kiddo could have been it, and I have to admit that I wanted it, I built a whole romance around him which has been systematically destroyed by him. He is 53, not 43. He does not look like the photo I had of him. He still has a great voice, and god knows, I will use him for voice over if I can in a video game or a film at some point, but he is ultimately a liar.
He again invented a whole story about waiting for a plumber and a mess in his apartment in order to avoid coming here on Sunday. And Saturday it was his famous aunt again who wanted to see him and his sister. And I am sorry, it is just too much, too many times. Something else is going on, and at this point, I donít event want to know.
It is obvious that
destiny is rushing him out of my life as quickly as possible. He served his
purpose, he helped me survive the first two months where I was so desperate and
alone, I could have gone back to
At least what I am
writing now for this blog, is different from last year, what I was writing
then. Something big was missing, obviously. And it could be just the beginning.
Soon I might have a lot more to say here, once I meet these people. And it
takes forever, no wonder people drop dead here and there in
I will produce a
full scale sci-fi film faster than producing a miserable two day conference
with 20 speakers on the program. The project will be so massive, it will
surpass even the construction of those gas pipelines in
I am beyond the dream now, I will actually get that spaceship built for real. I can certainly dream that, with all that I thought of to actually make it credible, I might just invent the real thing in the process.
All the stars in the Universe, beware, cosí Iím cominí!
12 January 2006
Kiddo Blog in
Oh dear, I smoked more than one pack of cigarettes today. That means at least $150 a month I spend on that, not even counting what it does to my health.
My new boyfriend must be about to call me. It is 9h20 pm, he should be getting up soon. He lives at night, you see.
He calls me the next best thing that ever happened in his life, I believe. He told his closest friends about me already. They are all happy for him. He already talks of moving closer to me, and what he means, is moving in my flat.
I can understand that nothing would keep him in his miserable room, even though he has been living there for many years, and developed a special relationship with the owner, a Jewish woman who has been more than understanding with him. Letting him work around the house instead of paying his rent. And now he will start paying again in March, and I bet he would much rather move in with me, as he has hinted many times before.
15 January 2006
Kiddo Blog in
Leonardo takes so much of my time, that I canít even finish my sentences in my own blog. As I was trying to say, he sees our relationship so consummated already that he talks of moving together, when the guy has never yet touched my dick or laid a hand on my body.
At the same time, the guy is a psychic medium which manifests itself in his dreams. He sometimes has vivid dreams and so far he said that they all came true to the detail. So not only he can see the future, but on top of it, he cannot change it. He said that he never tried to change it, so perhaps he could.
Since his fatherís death, he never had any more vivid dreams. And before his fatherís death he had a whole string of dreams about it, he even blacked out at his fatherís funeral and could not remember anything of what happened.
Since I came into his life, he started having these dreams again, and they are now about me. Not my death, and if it was he might not tell me, he said, but about our future together.
He saw me living
in a huge house in the hills somewhere around here in
To whom was I being unfair to? About what? This dream is a vision of the near future, three to five years at most. And Leonardo immediately assumed that the person I was not being fair to was him, when in retrospect it could have been anyone else, including Stephen in London (most likely).
So Leonardo called me this morning, almost in a panic state, asking me what it was that I was not telling him. How was I being unfair to him. Can you believe? He accused me of not really signing the contract agreement between us, that I signed with my three initials only instead of my full name, and therefore voiding the contract. He thought my name was not my real name in the first place.
Is this paranoia that will develop into something that will quickly get out of control? Is it just that he has been so played around in the past by virtually all the people he thought were his friends, that now trust is the most difficult thing for him to give?
My signature is my signature, whether it is my full name or my three first initials. The contract is fine, so it is certainly not what he was seeing in his dream. What could it be then? What is it about? God only knows, until at least he has another dream which will give us more data. And I certainly want to hear about it, because if I will be unfair to anyone in the future, I better be aware of it and make sure it does not happen. My conscience would not allow it, as his dream appears to be indicating.
Will I be forced to be unfair then? Will I have the choice? When dealing with third parties, I might not ultimately be responsible. And yet, feel responsible in some way. At this time we simply have not enough data. However if he has these dreams now, maybe it is more connected to the present than we think. And maybe we have all the data we need. Something needs to be resolved, but what?
The only thing I
can think of, is that at the moment I am very much in two minds about him and
our future relationship together. Yes, he can be my best friend, he can remain
so forever. But can I fall in love with him? Can I enjoy sex with him? I am not
so sure. I still love my Stephen in
At some point I am afraid to say, I will have to tell Leonardo that I am sorry, but this will remain a friendship. Now, this cannot be said at this time, since I am between two minds and I am no psychic. I donít know how I will feel tomorrow, in a few weeks time, or even months. Something might grow between us, I just donít know. But if yesterday was any indication of the future, and perhaps this is what prompted his vivid dream, then we have a good idea that it just wonít work between us intimately.
It did not help that he arrived here Friday night at the exact time that I came back from work. So I did not have the time to even clean the apartment. He also had to go to the doctor to get his cancer spots burned with frozen hydrogen. So he had all these bubbles over his face and body, and the word cancer spot, even if there is no cancer in this, but could develop in time, is not really appealing.
I was already wondering how I would actually want to be close to him after all that happened the first two times. I am starting to get a blockage as well, from fears that we might do things he might not enjoy.
So when we went to bed, at five in the morning, completely dead I might add, I was not in the mood and he felt bad. He sort of winged that he even used his coconut shampoo to be more attractive to me. It was the whining of a child. I did not know what to make of that.
But I told him he could take me in his arms if he wanted to, and he debated the idea in his mind for quite a while, and decided finally that he would need to have smoke much more grass to do that. He did ask me if I would stop him or reject him if he were to scratch my tummy and grab my dick. I said no, that he was very much welcome to do it.
I was however not in the mood, even if I did not say so exactly. I said I was tired and that we would do more the next morning. And then we did not do anything the next day. It must have left him inadequate, or filled with regrets. I donít know.
I spent more than 200 dollars in our two days together. I am not usually counting my money, but every time I do at the moment, I know I am one step closer to never buy my used car. It does not matter anymore since my phone bill came in yesterday, and it is $330. So I can no longer buy a car.
We went to eat at
Maggianoís, cost me $70. We went to eat at Bobís Big Boy on
I donít blame him, he has no money whatsoever and needs to borrow at high interest rates of 40% just to survive. So I donít think that he is a leech at all, so that is not exactly a problem. However I will not be able to sustain such expenses in the future, that is certain. And I feel he knows anyway.
Well, at least we
had an excellent weekend together, of which I will certainly remember for the
rest of my life. We had great discussions about our film script and other
ideas. We also went for a whole tour of the studios in
And he looks just
like Ron Howard, and I think people believe he is him. When we were at the
Bobís Big Boy restaurant in
Leonardo showed me the apartment of his actor friend, and at first he could not find the place, and pointed out to me the wrong building on the wrong street. My God, when was it last that he met with him? And then the right apartment was showed to me, and it was actually almost identical to the first one, so I believe the mistake was genuine.
In the gay bar in
19 January 2006
Kiddo Blog in
I have frightened the Leonardo tonight. Well, what do you expect? He showed up uninvited again at the same time that I arrived from work. Stayed long enough for me to get very drunk. So in the end he got to see some other side of me. The pessimistic and ugly side of me.
I had to tell him how I did not believe in ever meeting his great friends, and the desire to meet them had nothing to do with us working on that film script. Only him interests me, basically at this time, and what we can create together. Any other option should have been worrying to him anyway, it would mean that I am only interested in him because of his possible contacts, and that I did not care about him in the first place. Not sure if I was able to communicate that to him tonight, I guess not, I was quite off the wall. Too many beers Iím afraid.
The thing is, he is so engrossed in the one project that we are working on at the moment, he thinks there was nothing before it, and that there will be nothing after. For me it is just one project, and we should not forget everything else in parallel, and other projects we should work on. Because that one project we are working on might not go anywhere, and we need something else to fall back on, to believe in, to work on.
Maybe I am the realistic one of the two, when surely he should be the one who knows best in these matters. He has been in more than one hundred films, I donít care if he only was a figurant or in supporting roles, thatís more than I will ever be able to conceptualize in my life or learn from.
What I tried to make him understand, is that despite the great success of his friends, things are different for us. It will not fall from the sky, hard work is required, and we need to be on the dot everyday and work hard at making anything happen.
Others had it easy, and from the day of their big break, everything just came naturally. Which is far from being our case. In our case, hard work is required, and even then, it might never happen, no matter how intelligent and wonderful it is.
Heís living in another world, where everything happens easily to everyone. While nothing happened to him so easily. Easy to forget when you are surrounded by success, the success of others, even when they are your best friends.
But then again, I am worried for no reason. The guy has it, he is brilliant. He will get us there, no two ways about it. Why he has not achieved that on his own before my arrival is a mystery, because it is obvious that he has it, more than I. He obviously needed a catalyst, and I am it. So it is going to happen now, only because I came into his life, and that is why he fell head over heels over me. Sad when you meet people with so much talent, but need something to trigger it, me.
God only knows
where this will end and what will come out of it. Iím listening to Morrissey
right now, and he sings about
And yet, it
convinces me that
My baby in
Oh dear, I love
him so much, Iím crying again. And it is not just him that I love, it is
If it is all that
Everyone I have met here so far, are just not real. They are a caricature of life, and could be described as clowns, totally disconnected from the real life I have come to understand in time. None of them are real, how could they, they are so disconnected, it is amazing. Weíre not living in the same world, that much is certain.
And that is talking without even having met the celebrities, the ones supposed to be completely off their head, with nothing in common with anyone of us. Iím just talking about normal people, they donít appear normal to me, they are something I cannot deal with and that I have no wish to connect with. These are people who donít really live, they have gone through a lot, and yet, it is meaningless, as they are so disconnected. I canít explain it.
They do suffer,
but it is more like a
They seem plastic to me, I cannot believe any of them, they donít seem real to me. There is always that idea at the back of my mind that it could do a great movie, and therefore, they cannot live normal lives, and it shows. None of them touches the ground anymore, not sure if they ever did. I donít like it, this is fake, a fake world.
And I have been so
fake myself all my life, you would have thought I would fit perfectly into
their world. But I donít. I donít care to succeed or die. Better continue my
simple life in
21 January 2006
Kiddo Blog in
Two days ago Leonardo told me of a dream he had, about going to that kidís house whom he had sex with and which has turned into a nightmare for him. He dreamt that he went there because he was invited by the kid, but that the fatherís kid was there instead. And then the kid came home with a friend, almost creeping in whilst Leonardo was talking about the song he wrote about their relationship in the past. Leonardo said that he did not think the dream meant anything because he did not feel the usual twitching when he woke up, and that it did not seem to be like his other lucid dreams.
This morning he calls me to let me know that yesterday (last night) his dream came true. He went to these people and everything happened just has he dreamt it. Something important must have happened last night, and in the dream he woke up just as the kid arrived. He will tell me all about it later today when we go and meet his other dying best friend, a woman fighting for her life.
Is he lying to me? Is it just that he had sex with that kid again and the only way he could prepare me for it was to tell me he dreamt about it the day before, and in fact, he met that kid two days ago instead of last night? What would be the point of lying about that? To make it more legitimate, part of destiny, that he could not fight against it?
Letís assume it is true. What was the significance of the dream then? To prepare him? Or was it so emotionally charged and filled with some sort of weird energy, that it crossed into his dreams a few days before? And the dream was useless after all? He could have decided last night to not go there in the first place, he had the dream before. Does it mean that he had no choice but to go, or else the dream would have never happened in the first place? These are all interesting questions.
If after the dream he had decided not to go, then he would have gone back in a time loop in his life and he would never had the dream before. Even though he would have had it, in a different timeline or fluctuating reality where past, present and future mix altogether to become meaningless. Perhaps he can learn to change his life for the better, instead of just walking right through the warnings that he appears to be sending himself in the past.
However I have not heard the story yet, and perhaps something positive will come out of all of this. If he had sex with the kid, it would make it easier for me to tell him that I do not wish to pursue a relationship with him, just friendship. Because this is how I feel like at the moment, but since I donít know about if my feelings could change in the future, it is difficult to admit to him at this time. He sleeps here tonight, so maybe tomorrow I will feel different. Weíll see.
I just came back
from a whole day with Leonardo. I met his friend. We did the usual tour of the
canyons around here and a few towns, and
I was in a weird
mood all day. I could have shot myself in the head instead of doing anything
today. My deep existential crisis mode came back and lasted the whole day, on
the kind of scale I was suffering when I returned to
I call this my moments of awareness. And when it happens, I feel I have let myself be blind for quite a while, especially if it has been sometime since I last felt like that. The feeling that there is something wrong with the universe we live in, that it is all a lie, and that there is something else behind all the smoke that we cannot see. Life is just a game that I just do not want to play. And I am nowhere near knowing anything about what is, what I could call the real world, for a lack of a better word.
Funny enough, it might be this film script that we are working on that brought that crisis. Leonardoís structure of the universe, which by the way goes much further than our own universe, and the idea that I am not allowed to discuss here, might have made me feel that we are much more insignificant that I first realized. And that anything we could ever accomplished in life is completely meaningless and a waste of time.
I canít believe that yesterday I spent hours working on my business plan to start my own business, that I was all excited at the idea of finally get rid of the boss and making money. And today I fall flat on my face, becoming all philosophical and all, and wondering why I am alive and if it would make any difference at all if I were to die tonight. Thatís quite a shift in my thinking, I tell you.
And what is it that prompted all that? I donít know. Is it that Leonardo met his own kiddo last night, the one he was promising himself he would always stand clear from because he was too dangerous? It had quite an impact on me, I have to say. He was in love with that kid, he obviously still is, it has been less than six months since this whole sexual thing happened between them.
At the same time, I donít think I could ever love Leonardo, and the thought of sleeping with him again, and that he would sleep here tonight, is perhaps what freaked me out all day. I was going to tell him that I did not want sex tonight, I did not want to try, because I think our first two times together really sort of traumatized me in a way that I cannot even begin to explain.
So I forced myself to tell him that he was probably right to go and see his kiddo last night. And now I simply donít care what he does. He was still talking about †ďwhen we will live together in our houseĒ, and that we would invite friends and he will cook for them, etc. Well, I say that he is either not a psychic medium, or today was just a weird day and eventually I will end up in his arms for many years to come. Something he might have seen already and he is not telling me.
In fact, today,
going around the mountains in
Funny that we were
trying to find out about a vision he had about my future here in the mountains,
when today I virtually made my decision that I donít like it here, I donít want
to live here. And if I have to sacrifice a promising career in
I donít think
anymore that if my baby in
Of course, the
worst thing is that this little trip around here, despite the fact that I was
mostly not in the mood, will probably still have a great and positive impact on
me, becoming more familiar with
I recognize places
now, we follow the same roads, it is becoming familiar to me. We followed the
The truth is that I did not want to spend the day with Leonardo today. I did not want to meet his dying friend which looked exactly like my grand mother who died a few years ago. I did not want to be in that million dollar house overseeing Calabasas in such a view, that people would kill to live there.
I wanted to jump
in the car with my Stephen, and go somewhere in
I think I have reached my quota of being here, it has barely been three months. And it will be another three before I can leave. God knows what can happen in three months, but so far not much has happened, and so I can guess that not much will happen in the next three months. However three months is not really giving it a chance, and six is certainly long enough for something to develop. So I should not jump to any conclusion.
It does not help either that everyone I speak with has been betrayed by most of their best friends, and that people here donít appear to be nice at all. They all live in this weird state of paranoia, they cannot trust anyone. Well, Leonardo at least, and I just hope that his experience is unique in these matters. I donít particularly feel the need to meet his friendsí actors and writers at any rate now.
And his love affair that turned sour with that kid simply disgusts me. I donít want to hear about it anymore. I donít want his deep psychological problems to become mine. They also smoke marihuana last night like crazy, and the kiddo gave him some. And today Leonardo felt the need to smoke it twice today in front of me in his truck. And I really did not like it.
My boyfriend in
And I donít think he told me all the truth about his meeting yesterday. Maybe they had coke, maybe they had sex, maybe god knows what else happened. And it is just a bit too much to be worried about that, when I donít even like the guy that way. He has become too important in my life, he kind of imposed himself and stole all of my time.
We either speak on
the phone for hours or we meet for days. Thatís just too much. I want to get
back to normal. I want to distance myself from him. I want my life back, even
the one I had in
His friend that I met today, she said that I was very good looking. I thought he was telling her everything, but she did not know who the kiddo was. I realized I made a mistake there by telling her that Leonardo met him last night. When I asked Leonardo what his other two best friends would say about him seeing the kiddo, he said that he would not tell them about his meeting last night. When I enquired about why, he freaked out and I understood that I went too far in my personal questions. That he was getting annoyed that, for once, he was not the one wanting to speak about the kid, but I was the instigator of the subject. He was annoyed and said that he was not supposed to answer the phone, and that the kiddo insisted three times that he should come over, and he did in the end.
He also said that he would not tell his two other young friends because they would tell him it was a mistake. They have a tendency to tell him what to do and what not to do. And he did not like it. Finally I got something out of him, he was no longer mister nice. He is a human being after all. And I also understood that he tells me much more than he tells any of his other ďbest friendsĒ.
Letís talk about those two other young guys with whom he developed an excellent friendship over the years. One is filthy rich via his parents, the other is totally poor and has issues with a terrible family. They are both in their early 20s, are both good looking, and never had, apparently, a real girlfriend before. It sounds to me that they are both gay.
However a lot of the porn of the poor one is composed of women, and the rich one had his first girlfriend ever six months ago, and it will finish next week when she goes back to her weird country. Sounds to me that they are both gay, in the closet, secretly love Leonardo, but since they all have the same psychological problem in accepting their ďdisorderĒ as him, none of them are capable to make a move.
No wonder they all want to meet me badly, since theyíve heard so much about me, and how great I am, and how a miracle I have been in Leonardoís life, even though I feel I have not done anything to deserve any of this. And I feel terrible because eventually I will have to tell Leonardo that I donít want to develop a relationship with him, and it will hurt him.
At the same time, I think he can happily live with a simple friendship, since sex wise he his blocked in his mind anyway. The thought of having sex seems to repulse him as much as he appears to want it, as he asked to sleep here tonight and I had to tell him that I was in full existential crisis mode and would prefer some solitude to write instead.
Again, his deep
psychosis is rapidly becoming mine. And I donít need that shite right now in my
life, not when I already have my boyfriend that I love dearly waiting for me in
29 January 2006 (1)
Kiddo Blog in
I woke up this
morning with the fear of leaving
I would feel bad
because this enterprise of coming to
January went by so quickly, it is amazing. We must have passed a patch in space where the time rate was going faster than usual, even this blog has suffered from fewer entries as usual, and I cannot blame Leonardo, I barely saw him this month compared with December and November.
My psychic friend, even though said that he saw me living in this huge house here in the hills in the near future, told me yesterday that he already knows that I will be leaving Los Angeles, that I need to, to realize perhaps that there is nothing for me in London apart from Stephen.
And then, what he
does not realize, is that I could never come back to
At least he says he saw that our film script will make it big, it will change our lives. And I think so too now. What started out with another 20 pages I wrote for a film idea, with many new concepts for sci-fi, is now becoming a very well written sci-fi novel by Leonardo.
I told him again yesterday that I did not like to be fidgeting in the background while he writes, he assures me that without me none of this would be happening, since I tell him exactly what to write on a daily basis. I find it amazing myself that I have the whole story in my mind, to the details of every scene.
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We already had a lot of new stuff with his ideas of the structure universe, and my idea of the shrinking geometry of space, but now I have a weapon of mass destruction, it is a book called The Final Theory written by Mark McCutcheon, a Canadian-born Electrical Engineer now living in Australia, who published himself the most revolutionary book ever about his theory called The Expansion Theory.
It is very close
to my Shrinking Theory, and he went much further in the development of his
ideas. In my mind he confirmed all my observations, all that I thought the
mechanics of this world were all about. He is the person I was waiting for, to
help me justify all my ideas. However it will come at a very high price, I
wonít get any credit for it, he will get a Nobel Prize. He will be branded as
the guy who was more intelligent than
I was unable to get it out like him in a book, to take the time to think this through thoroughly, to write the most convincing book ever on the subject. So no one in this world will ever think me as a genius, big deal I suppose. It was perhaps too big a dream to be compared with Einstein. It is vanity at its highest. But would you want to be recognized if you had come up with Relativity just before Einstein, and could not get it out there before him?
It is like being the fifth Beatles, to help make it all happen, write the songs that made their earlier success, and still remain unknown and poor for the rest of your life whilst seeing the four others conquering the world. And you were that close to go on this adventure yourself and get all the credit.
It is even more painful when it comes to being declared a genius overnight, be recognized as the one that can make the world go much further, change the face of all physics and chemistry.
Mark McCutcheon is so convincing when he presents his Expansion Theory, it has instantly convinced me that I was completely right all along. It has changed my life in the last week. I read websites about science, and I just donít understand how we could have it so wrong on just about everything, what an impact our theories will have, and how we will have to rewrite everything.
It is a bomb
larger than a nuclear bomb, waiting to happen, and somehow I need to be part of
this. This is more important and exciting than anything I could be working on,
and incidentally, Mark will help me tremendously in that film script I am
working on. In fact all my shrinking theory was already part of the film, we
were to use it to shrink big material we will need to build the ship, and all
the mountains, earth and water we would need for the interior of the ship
We are also using the shrinking theory to propel the ship and explain how it can go so fast and so far in less than 20 years, with an ingenious new geometry of space where ships accelerating in the distance are simply shrinking away instead of covering any distance.
So ultimately I would not need to use Markís theory for the film. It has been less than 5 days since I have his book, and yet, I donít see any change in our film script. But I will add his ideas to make the whole thing more credible. And if he does not give us the rights to do so, I can at least keep everything I already have. And yet, he will think that I based all that on his theory and could sue, and it will become a game of proving that I had the same ideas myself and it has been online on my website for over ten years. So to hell with that man, youíre not the only one who can rethink the world of science.
However, I think
he will be pleased to see his ideas in the film. He needs to get it out there,
and this is the perfect medium, and this is what I was talking about when I was
saying that I wanted to change the world on a massive scale and that
It now depends on
his own greediness, if somehow thinking of
What I will not be able to say, is that matter is always expanding at the same rate. I never said that before. I just said that anything moving in this universe was simply expanding or shrinking, depending on the frame of reference. Close enough, isnít it?
Sad of me to not have seen the connection with gravity, especially when I had a few readers who asked me about how gravity would fit in my theories. I could have pursued it, I could have come up with the same conclusion as Mark McCutcheon. And it is tempting now in the film to use that critical gravity idea to propel the ship, but I can go around that and not mention it, easy, as we planned before I bought his book.
I have to say, to be able to claim in a sci-fi book and film that there is no more gravity, that there is no more electricity, that would have quite an impact. That all this is just a consequence of the geometry of space. And this is what I need to say there, that I cannot if his greediness prevents it in the end.
One thing for sure, I now have another book to write, my theoretical physics book to explain my ideas better, and also in light of what Mark McCutcheon said. And in this case it is different. I will need to consider everything he says to better explain what I said. There is much more that can be said now, especially about exactly what I need for the film script, that I already thought of.
The motion of objects in space, as I feel it has everything to do with shrinking and expanding through this geometry of space. And I am glad that his subatomic particles can actually shrink, because for three chapters there, I thought things could only expand at the same rate, and thatís it. Nothing shrinks, ever. And I believe he says so, except for electrons outside the internal atomic structures, which justifies his whole theory of electricity and energy.
Well, I believe objects can shrink with acceleration, and if they canít, Iím sorry, but for the need of this film script, they will. At the very least they can shrink and expand from specific frame of references, other points of view, relative to each other. He does not seem to have thought of that.
God, I knew this day would come. I was certain I was right in my assessment of how the mechanics of existence worked. I knew someone some day would come up with the perfect book to explain it all, with all the maths necessary to justify it. I did not know then how it would make me feel, because there was a good chance I was completely wrong, and yet, in ten years I received hundreds of emails, and no one has been able to convince me I was wrong.
First thing I did, and I did it many times over the years, was to do a research on the net to find out if anyone else had come up with the same ideas, searching words like expanding and shrinking matter, etc. And I never found anything. However my website is popular, especially that page on my website where I describe my theories. It always comes up on top whenever people do a search on parallel universes or relativity, or whatever else, even more so when they search on less popular terms. I have now links to that page all over the Internet, it is quite possible that I was the catalyst for Mark McCutcheon developing his ideas.
If he has done any research about his ideas on the Internet, it is virtually impossible for him to have missed my theory page. I donít expect him to admit to it, of course. It is in the human nature to try to keep all the credit, especially on that kind of scale.
That brings the question, why have I let it on my website for ten years? I knew this could happen. The truth is that I was hoping someone else would see it and develop it further. It was more important to me that this came out and makes humanity grow scientifically, than my own little vanity of wanting to be recognized for it.
At the same time, I knew I could not bring this to completion, that I did not have the scientific background necessary, that I never had the time to think and work on this, so that was a compromise. It would have died in my drawers and I hate this idea of no one being able to see any of it, to inspire people to go further, it would not have gone anywhere.
In fact, it is quite possible that without my website, Mark McCutcheon would never have thought of it, write that book and revolutionize all physics and chemistry in the process. So once one considers all this, I believe I have made the right decision. If I have inspired Mark, then this is my gift to humanity. That I did not care to hope to get the recognition, that I did not care to the point of keeping all these ideas hidden until such a time when I would have had the time to develop it further, and perhaps never.
When I will contact Mark, I would hope that he will tell me if he read my website, and not pretend that he did not if he did. Of course, the fear of being sued will stop him from admitting it. At that point he would also have to present his breakthrough as a common discovery between him and I, something that Iím sure he is not prepared to do, whilst I would definitely myself give credit to everyone who deserves credit.
But he is Canadian, there is a big difference. We are more human than Americans, or are we? At the same time, I donít see how he would feel the need to credit me, in the final analysis he just thought of one principle, that matter always expand, and from there he went on to draw all his conclusions about everything that needs to be rewritten in physics and chemistry.
Even if I had given him the initial thought, thatís about it. And there is not much to credit me for at that point. He also states that we can go faster than the speed of light, I have not read that part yet. I state that the speed of light is relative, letís see if he states the same thing, because if he does, this is proof that he read my website.
So far there is nothing in his theory that could have led him to state such a thing. It is quite a leap forward. If he states it, it would have to be a logical conclusion of his principle of expanding matter for me to believe that he was not inspired by me.
In the end, I would be pleased to have been part of this, to have helped science on a massive scale. I donít need recognition. I need to know myself that I did. So at the very least I can tell myself that I am a genius, if no one else will. I will never sue the guy, that much is certain. But now I have to make sure he does not sue me either for using my own ideas in my film scripts and all.
Funny that it is almost the first thing Leonardo said to me when we first met. That we were both geniuses. Even though at the time he had no concept that I had developed my own theory of everything, neither he knew everything else I had written. It was simply based on our conversations that went very deep indeed.
I have to admit that at that time I felt he could be a genius, but I felt that I was far from it myself. That it was always just a nice thought to believe that perhaps I was, never thinking that I actually was. And what is a genius anyway? Someone capable of seeing further? To replace current thinking on a massive scale? And then, that person would need to achieve that first in order to be declared genius.
No one is a genius with theories in their drawers, dying forgotten, and then all their work is just thrown in the bin or ends up in an attic somewhere. I can now only be a genius for importing my ideas into sci-fi, in my films, my books, etc. And I donít see how I will ever have the time to prove that and do it. A full time job in conferences is all you need to destroy all your dreams.
And starting my
own business will be the last nail in the coffin. Everyday I will need to sell
these conferences, fighting to get delegates and sponsors. It is a bad idea. We
need to finish that script, we need to sell it, I need to finally find that
great freedom to write and think, thatís it. And
And now I am going to try to read as much of this book of Mark McCutcheon as I can. I have only today to try to finish it, though I will have to continue reading this week after work, and this is difficult. I should not waste any time. I will feel liberated once I am not anchored to this book. It takes me forever because he repeats himself three times all the time, and it is a good thing, because then I donít need to read it again twice to finally understand what he means.
The last chapter
is the more significant one, I would say. Maybe I should skip the chapter about
rethinking energy for now, though he talks about Einstein in there and it will
be interesting, since most of what I said in my theory rolls around Einstein in
the fashion of objects in space following the warping of space, more than
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30 January 2006 (1)
Kiddo Blog in
Just two beers and I am already feeling drunk and sick. So in order to enjoy my third one, I have decided to write and to plug myself into Depeche Modeís music. I already feel much better, and ready to drink a few more beers.
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Unfortunately this means that I wonít finish reading that book The Final Theory by Mark McCutcheon, and I was so desperate today at lunch time to read as much as I could before going back to work. I have almost finished it, and it ends with a bang, the Theory of Everything, so I should be motivated.
Well, I have read enough to know that most of what I have said on my website is not in his book. It is unlikely that he read my website, and if he did, he only got there his inspiration for his principle of matter expanding.
What I have
written so far is still good, new, revolutionary, and his theory just supports
all my claims, proves it somehow, completes it. It is a great day to feel like
a genius mind, as this is most likely what he is. And the most disturbing
thing, is that he saw further than
I never thought that I would be able to send an email to a genius one day, as I never thought the times I lived in contained any of them. But there you are, here is one, and I can actually help him. And get my own ideas out there at the same time, since he proves somehow my theories. Enough said about that.
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Letís talk about work, nothing happened there today, enough said about that. Letís talk about Leonardo, he appears to have disappeared from the face of the Earth these last two days. I will admit that I would have liked to hear his voice, even if I donít feel anything for him. And am I glad that I donít feel anything for him. It is clear that where he was, was with his 22 year old kiddo who has been calling him non-stop for days now.
would have sent me into a spin, thank god I donít care. I have my baby in
I find it weird that when he was talking about his kiddo, I thought this was all in the past. And suddenly he resurfaced, Leonardo answered the phone, and instantly flew over there. Is it just the drug that gets him there? Free marihuana? Leonardo is desperately poor at the moment, and yet, very much dependent on his drug. With the rich kiddo, they get stoned, Leonardo leaves with 20 dollars worth of stuff.
Well, it could also be that Leonardo is planning to write a book about that Kiddo one day. So he is gathering more info, who knows. The last possibility is that he is still in love, and secretly desires sex, the perk of friendship as the Kiddo calls it. The weird thing is that it is obvious the Kiddo is straight, yet, he was so abused sexually, that it seems that it is the only way he can get whatever he wants from anyone. Or else he has such a strong libido, and sex is so normal to him, that whether it is a man or a woman sucking his dick, does not make much difference. I donít know.
All I know is that he has my Leonardo under his spell again. And whatever Leo is inventing to justify the why he goes back to the kiddo, it sounds like a lot of bullshit. He is badly in love and desires sex with the young god. And he will get it. And he will suffer again.
He was already so obsessed with that kid, now it is going to take huge proportions. And I am getting tired of hearing about that semi-god who has a bestseller book written after him, and a fucking big blockbuster of a movie coming in less than three months. Kill him, thatís what I say.
And I am not
jealous. Imagine what it would be if I were, if I was already in love with the
Leonardo. It would be unsustainable, I would have left for
Leonardo is lost. He is restarting his bad relationship with the Kiddo who, sometime ago was threatening to sue him in justice for sex with a minor. He declared himself a jail bait. And yet, Leonardo is running to him again. Ready for more crap from this, as he says all the time, a manipulator.
Well, I was talking before about four dimensional people, people with a past, the fourth dimension being time. Well, now I can talk about a full 10 dimensional Leonardo. His past has caught up with him, he is again walking in the wolfís mouth.
You would have thought I would have done everything in my power to prevent it, and if love had been part of the equation, you could rest assure that I would have done so. However he would have just not told me anything about it, and still walk the dark path. And anyway, what do I care what he does with his life? I have known him less than three months, he had a life before me. Let him learn from his mistakes. It is obvious that despite of being aware of the dangers, he walks freely towards it, and he would under any circumstances, whatever I could say to prevent it.
I bet you by now he has experienced again the Friend with Benefits thingy. Iím sure they had sex. Maybe it will unfreeze Leonardo, make him understand a few things. Because my trauma with him has certainly been that he has been a block of ice in bed, and freaked out when my dick was on him. God, how many years would be needed to make him accept his homosexuality now? Never, most probably. Unless the Kiddo, his only love and sexual object ever, changes all that. Good luck then, I have other things to concentrate on. I donít need that bullshit to make my life more complicated than it already is. No Green Monster, no jealousy, be happy with your life.
Usually this is where I would do a comeback on myself and admit that it bothers me terribly. That I want my Leonardo, and that this damn kiddo is taking him away from me. But not this time, I donít feel like it, I donít really care.
Tonight I celebrate my independence! Not only from Leonardo, but from Stephen as well. If I am destined to greatness, it is neither of them that will get me there. Only me can achieve that. I donít need anyone else, and especially, I donít need to depend on the friends of my friends to get there. Seems to me to be the best way to never go anywhere.
So I donít care for Leonardoís friends that I will never meet. The day I will meet them, is the day I will be able to do something for them, and that day, I will let them down badly. Because I have other ideas, a perfect idea of perfection, and Iím afraid to say, it does not include them. I donít mind how great they are, what they could do for me, I will get there anyway by my own means, by my own intelligence, my own creativity. It will explode, no doubt, never mind if this is only to happen in 10 or 20 years.
I have waited 15
years before getting published. I can wait before exploding all over
Maybe nothing will
happen while Iím here. Perhaps I will just go back to
I imagined that to be much easier. Sucking a few dicks, actually enjoying it (thatís the difference here), and get all my projects produced. Simple! It does not work like that, unfortunately. It could, with the father of the kiddo, he is gay after all, and quite old, and quite successful. But Iíll never meet him, even Leonardo canít stand the idea of seeing him again. And the son would want to get in the way, he would want to have sex with me just to stop it all. But it would not work. It has been a long time since kiddos had any effect on me.
I donít want to have sex with someone who does not desire me in the first place. As with Leonardo, it is like having a penis on me, it turns me off. Blackmail would not work either on me, I have nothing to hide, I am pure and innocent, and if someone wants to sue me, let them, I will win every time. I have nothing to lose, since I have nothing to begin with.
But I donít care much for that complicated scenario. Great ideas are great ideas, they go somewhere, even if it is only in cyberspace. And thatís enough for me anyway. My million plus visitors, is fine by me. Even if I donít make any money out of it. Being greedy, brings our own destruction. Let it all come out in the open! Let my mind come out! Youíll see how far we can go.
So, I still
believe I have a great destiny ahead of me. Funny, especially that despite the
fact that I am in
Anyway, I have
already written a book about my stay in
Even if I havenít met anyone, did not even get close. Who cares? As I said before, it is the idea, the concept of it that counts. Not what happens once youíre there, not whatever I could write about it.
I am so cynical. I donít want any label. I donít want to be a successful writer and be stuck writing boring TV series that I care nothing about. With my big house in the hills, and the big car that costs more than whatever people make in one year. I donít want that lifestyle. It is too common.
I am the Marginal,
I want something more, something better, something that not everyone has
already gone through. God, at that point, better disconnect me from reality and
plug me into a machine recreating a virtual reality. Anything else but whatever
else people have already gone through. I think I still need to go to
Yes it would.
It does not appear like I will be able to live that Marginal life, that interesting life, I canít even conceptualize it. Iím so disconnected right now. Thatís the alcohol for you. When I think I am reaching the real me, achieving real awareness of my situation. Am I too deep for you? Bastards? I donít care about you.
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Let me tell you all the truth. I got some crabs from some ugly old man the first two weeks I was in LA. The reason the Kiddo, my Kiddo, is not calling back, is because he knows I gave him body lice. And it is too embarrassing for him to let me know.
I finally told Leonardo that I might have given him some crabs. I would have expected some sort of crisis, but so far it has not materialize, except that I have not seen him or heard from him for a few days now.
These body lice
are not your usual variety. They are definitely the Next Generation. I have
applied this product that is said to cause cancer, five times now, and still I
was unable to get rid of them. And in perfect and protective
They have already destroyed my relationship with the Kiddo, and it would be a miracle if they donít destroy my friendship with Leonardo. I would not kill a fly in my apartment, or a spider, but these creepy creatures sucking my blood and destroying my life and my destiny, I tell you, I would exterminate them all! I am the Hitler of the crabs! It is my new destinyÖ
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Leonardo just called, and lied. Did not take long. He said he did not see his kiddo, I donít believe it. He saw instead Isabella, the girl who has been after him since they have met recently in a bar. God knows, she may also be a danger to our relationship, perhaps he is still willing to try a girl, since he is so blocked on his gayness.
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And I realized that perhaps I care more for him than I thought. I think I just written it off because of the bugs, took it for granted that after that, there is no future in any new relationship. Maybe I was wrong. It will take time anyway before I can get over my traumatic experience of sleeping with him. And the bugs served me well, I blamed them for not wanting any intimate relation between us. So perhaps they are part of my destiny, who knows?
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I would not mind to be in his arms again, see where it could lead. Even if less than an hour ago it was completely unthinkable. Maybe it is the alcohol talking. And maybe the alcohol will be talking this weekend once he is here again and I am drunk. I am getting so desperate for affection, even a red headed guy would do.
It would be different now. It would not be casual sex. It would mean something. It would be weird. It would have a lasting effect. If I could get him to suck my dick now, it would give me a weird sensation, a weird pleasure, because it would not come from a stranger, but from him. We have got closer in the last few months, very close. And this is not infatuation, like it was with the Kiddo.
The truth is, I
have no idea what is ahead of me. Iím willing to explore, I do not shut myself
down. I am not planning my way out to
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And these bugs wonít stop me. They must have their reasons to have ended up on me, somehow this is what was supposed to happen, even if I cannot see it right now. For now, Leonardo believes that the Kiddo gave them to me, and that is the reason he is not calling me back. So he has a reason to celebrate, the bugs got rid of the Kiddo. In a way they did, but of course, because I gave them to him. Even now I cannot be honest about that sad old man I met in my first two weeks, because I was so desperate to celebrate my newfound freedom. I need to be shot.
Should I tell you the whole truth? Gosh, it is extraordinary how I can still lie to you, after telling you so much. Well, bugs would be the least of my worries, if what I am afraid of now comes true.
There was another
bastard in that story with whom I had sex. He is from
He wanted to fuck me, and he did, and it worked. He was able to get it all in, with a condom of course. But just before he came, he was kind of over me, pretending that I was penetrating him, and when I asked if I was in, and that I hoped I was not because I did not have a condom, he said that this is why he had his hand there, that he was making sure that this would not happened. However, when he came, he suddenly got my dick in, even if I could not really be certain.
I donít think he was that much a risk, he lives with his girlfriend, and from I could gather, he was not very active on the dating website. And hopefully he does not go around taking that much risk with everyone. So I doubt that I got aids from that three seconds penetration. However, I cannot be certain. I canít even be sure if I penetrating him or not. And now I understand how easy it is to get AIDS.
Great! I will
Well, this news
should rejoice me, I always wanted to die anyway. But not in 15 years or so,
after so much suffering and knowing the inevitable. My cousin almost died two
days ago in a car accident, my other cousin is in prison for drunk and driving.
That could have been my faith if still in
I still donít think I got it, I still donít even know if I penetrating him. But somehow it would just be my luck. Iíll know in three months, when I can finally have a meaningful test.
Well, now you canít say that I am lying. It is going beyond the call of duty, once again, for a writer to be so honest in his writings. And yet, it took me a month to admit that AIDS thing, and three to even tell you about the bugs. I have no doubt now that my value in your eyes has gone out the window. Iím a tramp, as good as a whore. So be it.
Letís wait until this happens to you, and then you will understand. Sorry, are you Christian and pure then? Fuck you then. Donít get out of your home, donít get out of your life, and never be exposed to terrorists, nuclear attacks, or cancer. Good for you, good boy, good girl. Donít worry, it is people like you who will get AIDS in the end, it wonít be me.
I have a destiny to accomplish, I cannot be stopped by that. But your life is meaningless. That you are alive or dead makes no difference. So we might as well have you suffer from the impossible. Anthrax is probably what will kill you eventually, since Osama Bin Laden is still alive and kicking. Good luck!
I feel better now that I have told you all. I feel that this was the test and I passed. I feel that I no longer need to get AIDS form my point of view of destiny, because I was able to tell it all here tonight. I would not need to be forced later on to admit that Iím dying.
Anyway, it would give me another reason to commit suicide, a good one this time. Iím telling you, I will never reach that hospital for invalids dying of AIDS, I will be long dead by then. Never mind that getting AIDS now would not necessarily mean death, since they could come up with some sort of cure. We live 20 years now, wonderful. 20 painful years where I would know that I will eventually die. Forgetting that I could easily die from 20 other reasons within months instead. How convenient.
And my whole dream of becoming positive would be completely thrown out the window. It would be 20 years of the darkest stuff one has ever read. Cynicism at the forefront. It would not be good, Iím telling you. I doubt you would not commit suicide after reading all my books. In fact, it would be a miracle if you were still alive after reading the 25 books I have already written.
No, it makes no sense, I donít have AIDS. I would just like to be sure, even if I have this desire to die. But not like that, it is too common. I am the Marginal. My death will not be that.
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7 February 2006 (1)
Kiddo Blog in
left, again I thought he would never leave. We went to see
Once again he spent many hours talking about his childhood, and how screwed up he is. And I told him that he needed a good slap in the face to get back to reality, and forget about second grade psychology, and start looking at the present and the future.
He seems very much in love with me now, I could see he wanted to kiss me many times, and he did, and I blamed any reason I could find to explain the fact that I tried to avoid him sleeping here for many weeks now. When really it was more about how traumatic it had been the first two times.
He still sees us as a couple destined to something great, he also acknowledged that it was not his place at the moment to try to get more involved, while I had all these decisions to make, like remaining here or going back to London with my boyfriend. That I still very much love and would like to remain faithful to.
Our little trip to
I donít understand why he repeats to me that he is genuine, that I can believe him, and all that stuff. He has obviously been hurt by many dishonest people in his life, and he is afraid I might think that he has some ulterior motives, when in fact, there is only genuine love. Well, I have not met that many dishonest people in my life, so for me everyone is fine until they give me a reason to believe otherwise, and that never really happened with any of my friends. So he is kind of wasting his time here.
Tomorrow I will be a zombie at work again. I wonít be able to do anything. He is again responsible for this. Weeks are passing very fast, they turn into months, and yet we are not going anywhere, it takes forever. That film script will never be finished or be sold this year. That is why my second big idea for our next project, I have decided that I will be doing most of the writing. I cannot wait for him to finish the first one, I will be dead by the time he finishes it.
Anyway, the second script is very much about great dialogues, they are all in my head, and I need to write them. So I will even skip the long synopsis, I will jump right into the script. One thing I have learned through this, donít waste time writing what the story will be about, just write it now. And that is what I will do this weekend.
And now I am going to bed, Iím dead. I might go to work an hour late, otherwise I will be so unproductive, I will be useless. Again I am risking my job, I could be sacked on a whim, but what can I do?
6 March 2006 Ė 3 am
I finally got back
Leonardo was not alone to pick me up, he brought along his Kiddo, with whom he apparently god very drunk last night. I think they have been together all day, for the last 48 hours or something. If they did not have sex, it would be a miracle. Thank god I am not jealous about this, it would have freaked me out completely.
Though the kid has a nice body, I would not say he is that god everybody described to me. He certainly has no intelligence and all his little games he is supposed to be playing with everyone, must be the fruit of an immature kid, and not very bright at that.
He took his first shirt off in the car, showing a camisole of some sort. He put it back on once we got out of the car. He did not seem to like me very much at the beginning, I was certainly not in the mood to meet him tonight. But then I made a few jokes and he unfroze. At my place we drank some beers and then I was very funny. I was also very careful to pay him as many compliments as possible, since I have been told that he was desperate for that kind of shite.
Well, overall, when you look at him, you would not think anything of him. And yet, it is undeniable that inspired at least three books, a few songs and a huge big blockbuster coming out in a month worldwide. The actor who plays him is huge, it is almost unbelievable. It is a mystery to me how this is possible.
They asked how much I was paying for my apartment which must have looked luxurious to the kiddo, when I said $1500 a month, he almost fell off his chair. He must think now that I am rich or something. If not, he must already be calculating about how he could move in, since he can no longer inhabit the huge house of his father, that has now been rented to two friends of the family.
No doubt I would
benefit form the perks of friendship, as he calls it. We would sleep together
every night. No doubt I would probably come back home one day and my computers
and DVD recorder would be gone. No doubt either that my relationship with
Iím not sure if I would want all that. It has crossed my mind already, there is no way it has not crossed his also. He also apparently has a feet fetish thingy, and yeah, I certainly showed my feet after taking a quick shower. He looked at them, and I have nice feet. However it is not clear if he is gay or not, we did talk a lot about all his girlfriends tonight, and all the sex he has with them.
I think he is
going to meet a brick wall with me. I donít think I am willing to jeopardize
everything in my life for a book and perhaps a film deal, and oh, great sex
every night with a 22 year old that apparently the whole planet fancies. Give
me an old fatty instead any day, yeah, right. It would be tempting, but the
price to pay might be just too high. Not that I care losing both my computers
and my new DVD recorder which will not work in
I donít know. A
kid who tried to sue Leonardo for sex with a minor when it was not true, who is
recording everyoneís conversation on the phone when he calls his friends, who
has successfully sued many people in the past for god knows what, I would need
to be pretty blind to get myself into that. Especially that 22 year old donít particularly
attract me. He does not particularly attracts me. However Iím sure it would be
the best sex I had in years, once I get used to it. Iím not desperate for it
though, I will be more than happy with Stephen once I go back to
It is most probable that I am jumping the gun here, I might never see him again, and it would be a good thing. He wanted to meet me, he wanted to see the new influence on Leonardoís life. And he is probably now working hard telling him that I am no big deal. He certainly would not understand what it is that Leonardo sees in me, I canít see it myself. Iím supposed to have changed his life, Iím supposed to be the new and only love he ever had, Iím the so-called savior who gave him back his inspiration and unleashed all his talents. My God, I wish I could meet myself then, I am in great need for stuff like that. But everyone is so boring on this planet, everybody fits in so perfectly, I could never find inspiration anywhere.
We talked about his father, how hard he worked all his life, how an accomplished writer he is, with his 52 published books, many best-sellers, and I had to retain myself from going to the toilet to throw up. Iím so jealous, Iím so pretentious, I feel I am myself sitting on a huge time bomb and that I will one day eclipsed them all. It is a great feeling, the energy necessary to believe that I am as great as them, that I am greater than anyone, no matter their success. Nice to be so disillusioned, at the same time, I need any kind of motivation, a boost, so I can start to work harder to actually achieve something greater. I canít imagine that it is all that I have done in the past that will get me somewhere. It could, but I doubt it. Oh dear, if only I had that chance again to work full time on my writings, I would blow off this world. All these ideas I have that I could develop, it could revolutionize everything. As it stands I might never get that chance.
Oh, and that great
news Leonardo wanting me to be back in
He feels this is
new sci-fi, a total renewal of everything, and it sure is. He thinks this is
huge and will be produced with a budget of millions of dollars, it would be too
good to be true. He is flattered that we want him as the main actor, how
surprising. He wants us to meet the other great sci-fi writer of
Oh God, could it
be true? Could it be that easy? Am I closer than ever even if I could not see
it before? Is it possible that I have met the single one person in
I donít need
I am convinced now
that I donít need to contact anyone else whilst in
Fuck them, fuck
them all. Could not get any of my books published there in 20 years, got
Shit, I have a
My speech for the Oscars has been ready for years. I will tell the world that I would like to thank everyone who has never believed in me, who tried everything to discourage me to pursue my dreams, since this is all I have ever met all my life. And I will tell to everyone to not listen to anyone, and to continue to believe, because then they may have a chance to get somewhere. Nothing is too big, no dream is too large or impossible to achieve. Get to work, sacrifice everything, donít doubt yourself, and get there in the end. What a great speech, now I only need an Oscar, so I can tell the world.
Wow, it is nice for a change to get my old self back. The one who truly believes he can achieve anything and will be very successful one day. I thought Iíd lost that kid in me sometime ago. Normally I would delete what I just wrote, because I know very well the answer it would get from all the critics and anyone else reading this. That much pretentiousness does not deserve to succeed. The answer to that would be to hate me.
So be it, I am
beyond caring, considering that most of the time I donít even believe in
myself. So when it comes, I will enjoy it. It is that kind of burst of energy
that could get me there, that convinces me that I can get there, that I will
get there. And if I want to change my future on that kind of scale, I will need
that kind of determination, that kind of assurance in my potential. If I donít
believe in myself, I donít deserve anyone else to believe in me. Even if
somehow I could manage to open myself the doors of
I have the greatest ambition, and no one will take that away from me. So get lost, I have a destiny to accomplish, and you are in my way, as you have always been. But soon, no longer will anyone be in my way. Mark my word.
7 March 2006 Ė 3 am
Did not take me
long to get back to reality. I am far from thinking about film script right
now, as if it is something that never existed. What existed and who was just a
vague image in my mind up until yesterday, is the kiddo of Leonardo. It seems
to me that he is spending all his time with him, which is why he barely calls
me anymore. The reason is also because his father is away to
I was not worried or jealous yesterday, especially that I kind of let Leonardo down by leaving for a week and not seeing him so often. And yet it is bothering me, even if I donít want sex with him or start a relationship. The thing is, this is what he wants, and at the beginning he did say that the reason he did not find me attractive right there, was that his mind was still floating in his mind around what he feels is the cutting thing around, his kiddo. And now this is what he got back. So I might as well no longer exist. I might have lost a friend, my only friend in fact, and maybe this is why I feel something, even if it is not very strong. Of course, nothing prevents me from still being his friend, so in the end this is all ridiculous.
I donít know. I
thought that perhaps we would in time develop relationship, and that maybe it
all depended on if I was going to remain in
I would love to know if they have sex, but of course, even if I were to ask I would not get the truth. I would only show my jealousy, when in fact it cannot even be called that. If the kid was actually gay, and I thought they could develop a real relationship which could last for at least a few years, I would be happy for them. But this is not the case. They will have sex, the kiddo will get tired, and Leonardo will no longer sleep in my bed since I am not at all that semi-god he just filled his head with. What does not help either, is that none of them are working right now in a 8 to 5 job, and they donít seem to be bothered by staying together for days on end when I reach my limit after 12 hours with Leonardo. And I am working like crazy, there is no end to it. I canít even breathe. I might as well forget Leonardo right now, just continue to work on the script, thatís it.
Might be better
that way, I did not really fancy having sex with him, and I have my Stephen in
7 February 2006 7h35 pm
Something is up with Leonardo. I called him tonight after a day hiatus, and usually he would be so pleased to speak to me. Tonight he could not get off the phone quick enough, after only 2 minutes. His excuse was that he had to go and run outside, that would have never stopped him from speaking to me before. And I when I quickly mentioned that he was now best friend with the Kiddo, his answer was that he had to go now.
It speaks volume, from a guy who would not leave my place, who would not hang up the phone after 7 hours of talking about nothing. I donít know what changed in his mind, but tonight I felt that it was over between us before it even started. I guess the Kiddo must be responsible, somehow he was able to convince Leonardo that I was not worth it. Or, his interest is now so focus on the Kiddo (to whom he was probably going tonight instead of running outside), that he simply lost his interest in me. Maybe his love for me has been shifted towards the Kiddo, which anyway was a huge obsession for him, he could not talk about anything else for months!
So tonight I got
the message. What I suspected was true. I have lost my only friend in
And since I am not like Gloria at work, who is a real bitch with her new boyfriend, being hysterical and demanding, playing mind games like an insane woman, I will be sensible about this. I will not call him back, but not because I want him to understand and flip, but because I understand that at the moment he has his hands full with the Kiddo. It is likely that once the Kiddo disappears, he will come back to me crawling, however the Kiddo is in such a weird situation at the moment, that could last a while, that I think he will need Leonardo for much longer than I will actually remain in Los Angeles.
And by being sensible, I mean to be nice and polite and Leonardo calls, pretend that nothing is unusual or has changed, and even see him if he wants to, but of course, never asking to see him myself. This is what good friend is. Not telling him that he should not see the Kiddo, that he will suffer the consequences at some point, or give him ultimatum. I just have to accept my place, and perhaps find new friends, if that is at all possible.
What is more worrying is where our film script stands now? Another big mistake, to work on any project attached to someone else or any production company. I have made that same mistake again! I canít believe it! Stuck with something we will never finish, without the rights to do anything with it. I could curse myself right now for having been so blind, once again. I even signed a contract this time to make sure I will not be able to do anything with it even though all of it are my ideas apart from the big thing at the end, his structure of the universe, and a few details along the way.
Iím not sure now
how I could get rid of all of his ideas, and convince him that what remains is
mine and I can do whatever I want with it. Well, maybe it wonít come to that.
Maybe we will still finish the damn thing even if it is going to take years.
But for me thatís it, never again will I work with someone else, or for someone
else, without first seeing a paycheck. Thank God I am leaving
And right now I am
even more disgusted and gutted by Depeche Mode. I paid nearly $30 dollars in
I think I should
just go to bed and forget these last few days. This life is becoming a real
nightmare, I was not expecting that. Iím pleased there is no alcohol in here, I
would drown myself right now. Funny how one stupid little impatient phone call
with Leonardo, where he obviously did not want to speak to me, can turn me
into. Especially after all the problems I just went through in
I wish I could
just shed some weight instantly, get back my youth, and get out every night in
the clubs of
I need to forget that TV and DVD recorder that I have not used at all in the last four months. Forget to write stupid film scripts who will never go anywhere. Forget to write stupid books that will never see the light of day. I need to forget my backup plans of starting a useless business. I do not need to pretend anymore that I am accomplishing something. I am not accomplishing anything, I am not going anywhere, and if I continue on the same path, I am doomed. I need to live!
What happened to myself? How could have I let myself be distracted by everything, every single little trifle and person I have met. This is no destiny, it is what stops you from accomplishing your destiny. I have been lying to myself for years, I have been working on my next great big venture, year after year, and all it was doing was to stop me from living, destroying everything that was still standing in my life.
And now I sit here
tonight and understand that I have not been living, and living is more
important than writing about how to live without actually living it. And now I
sit down tonight, filled with that huge amount of energy, and I wonder, what is
it that I could do right now that would be living? Drugs, hard drugs, clubbing
all night, sex with anyone without worrying about AIDS, letís just die at the
end of it, never coming home again, wherever home is, get lost in nature and
donít even dare to think about it. I am after all in
I need alcohol. I need to be completely off my mind! Iím going to the shop. Iíll be a zombie tomorrow at work, it is just poetic justice.
All right, just came back from 7/11. Bought for $77 worth of alcohol, cigarettes and perhaps some hot dog bread. I guess Iím ready to live, Iím ready to write.
13 March 2006
Leonardo finally called back on Sunday night. He told me that he could not speak to me the other day because the Kiddo was beside him. In fact, the Kiddo slept at his place for over a week, because he could no longer stay home. He claims there was no sex, though I find that hard to believe, every night almost naked in such a small bed. However, psychologically blocked as Leonardo is, it is still possible that they did not do anything.
Anyway, it does
not really matter whether they did or not, it is clear now that nothing else
will happen between Leonardo and I, and that I am going back to
I was pleased to
hear that Leonardo has not abandoned the idea of collaborating on the film
script and still intends to get me to me the great sci-fi writer of
He is also
reaching the end of working on his music, his doctor has gone wild about
finding investors. He is talking about creating a company and everything around
the music of Leonardo. So perhaps he is closer to getting rich after all, I
sincerely hope so, which such songs, there is no doubt this guy will be really really
rich any time soon. Hopefully the doctorís investors wonít back out, especially
that there was no need to create a full company with this, $10,000 investment
for Leonardo to go to a studio and get a perfect demo was all that was
required. But this is
26 March 2006 - 2
It has been a
while since I spoke with Leonardo. Simply because it has been a while since I
saw him last. We barely spoke on the phone anymore. This was nice, because for
a while he really took a lot of my time. I loved to find myself alone in
Unfortunately, all that is about to change. Something almost unbelievable happened yesterday with his Kiddo, and now, theyíre no longer friends. Amazing, considering that Leonardo dropped me like a sock as soon as the Kiddo went back into his life. And now he is coming back, telling me that he was blinded by the beauty of the youngster, and that he will not make that mistake again.
I am also surprised to hear that he saw the Kiddo almost every day, because he says he was calling him something like 30 times a day, night and day, leaving messages after messages. And they call me compulsive and obsessed.
The story is so boring, I donít even feel like telling it here. And yet, here it is. They met yesterday, the Kiddo had a lot of drugs, and his little glass pipe, and whatever else. So they smoke together, but then it went wrong at some point. The Kiddo wanted sex, Leonardo refused (though I think that part of the story is untrue, I think they had sex many times in the last few weeks and months). Somehow they had an argument, and the kid, driving illegally, dropped Leonardo home, sulking. He came back in the middle of the night, to get back his drugs and pipes. Unfortunately, instead of ringing the bell, he decided to force his way in. First in the garage, where his drug was no longer, and then by the kitchen window. He broke a vase, the roommate heard it, called the police, and now the police came, took fingerprints, they know who did, and that poor kid is again in trouble. And has destroyed, perhaps definitely, his friendship with Leonardo.
That was painful to tell. I have little interest in all this. All I know is that now Leonardo is back into my life, to resume where we let it off. Fortunately he is now working full time on many landscape designs, and hence, he is no longer alone all day at home, waiting for me to come back from work completely exhausted, wanting to see me for 48 hours non stop, or talking on the phone for six hours straight. That was a bit too much for me. And this is what apparently he has been experiencing with the Kiddo, and Leonardo now says that it was too much. I canít understand why, when he fancied and probably was in love with the Kiddo. Must be difficult now to let go of him, realizing that the Kiddo is a danger to him.
And now, let me tell you something else that is even more shocking. His great actor friend, that I have been waiting five months to meet, and I am supposed to, as usual, meet in two weeks time, he has sex with him many times. He tried to justify that it was not really sex, but what he told me happened, Iím sorry, it is sex.
He did it because the 70 year old man was begging for it, and he was afraid that if he rejected him, he would never see him again. And last year, the actor finally understood that Leonardo did not enjoy it, and decided to let go. And right on the spot, they barely saw each other since. So Leonardo feels bad about it.
If that was all!
The old man has AIDS, he had it for 20 years. Apparently he got it from sharing
needles, as he was a big partygoer in the 60ís and 70ís. He was a well known
actor then, heís been in everything. So the man might actually die before I
meet him. Probably from that cancer we have been told he has, but simply from
AIDS. And Leonardo had sex with him, though being in the arms of someone with
AIDS, and having his dick sucked, most likely did not infect Leonardo. And yet,
I am pleased I did not do much with him. Especially that he is telling me now
that he is bleeding from the ass, and one of his testicle has been hurting him
for years now. I donít need these gruesome details, they make me want to run
away. Everyone is dying for real, that is not what I was expecting to find when
I decided to come to
None of the people
I have met in
I am so tired! Even after three days off doing nothing but sleeping and reading a book. I still need anything to bring me to some sort of normality.
Leonardo believes he was Jesus-Christ in a past life, he even tried to convince me today that he did not have a God-Like complex. He also believes he was Leonardo Da Vinci, Mozart and Beethoven. His faith in God saved him for the last 25 years where he was all lone and was backstabbed by all his friends who ended up stealing everything he had. And yet, that guy has produced music which is about to go number one worldwide! Making him a very influential person instantly, with little songs about love or the lack of it. Impressive, for a 45 year old Virgin who never really enjoyed sex in his life, and never had a partner, who basically never had love!
He could have been
my new boyfriend, but I would need more than an assurance that he will be rich
one day, I would need love. And I already have love. I cannot abandon my poor
little Stephen in
8 April 2006
This is the third
book I am writing whilst in
So I was a bit
desperate that for a long time I had nothing to write in this book, since my
And then I got a few calls in the last few days from Leonardo. Well, if nothing happens in my life, his has certainly gone into quite a tangent. After the break-in into his house by the kiddo, apparently the kiddo also broke into his fatherís car, stole the radio, and sold it somewhere for drugs. The father, enraged, kicked him out of the house. And the poor kid has ended up at Leonardís place, living there and stealing for the last two weeks now.
I finally got out
of the Leonardo that they had sex. I donít know why he would not admit to it
before, but tonight he somehow felt like admitting it. Of course, I have been
quite ingenious about it, spoke abut my boyfriend in
Anyway, after mentioning my boyfriend, I kind of suggested that we were not exactly an item, so if he had sex with the kid, why not say so? It was hard, I had to not sound like a jealous and hysterical girlfriend. I am anyway detached enough that it was possible.
So in the last two weeks they had sex three times. Apparently no display of affection, no cuddling together, Leonardo did not even get his disk sucked. It is him who gave three blow jobs, while the Kiddo covered his head under the sheet, seemingly thinking of some other girl in order to get a hard on. The peak of manipulation, youíve got to give him that, that kid might not have any brain, he is still a master in getting what he wants from anyone he meets.
In a way I thought that perhaps this will unfreeze Leonardo, and get him to actually enjoy sex with me, if ever this gets back on the menu, and Iím pretty certain it wonít. However, when I asked hi if he actually enjoyed it, remembering that I thought it was unlikely the guy would ever give me a blow job, he said that he did not in a way, but in another way he did. Weird. He says he his attracted to the bad boy image of his partner. Also that he is most aware that nothing will come out of this and still believe that soon he will no longer see the Kiddo for many months.
Though I am not
exactly jealous, it did hurt me a bit. Enough that I decided to break my habits
of not drinking anything over the weekends and cracked opened my first beer. To
see if it would inspire me a few lines. In my second fictional book which I
already considered finished. But a book is not finished until my life changes
beyond recognition, like moving back to
It is quite a
story we are building now, the Leonardo and I. Might be a full book after all.
God this would have hurt me if I had been in love, and yet I still feel
betrayed because the guy has tried hard to get to me, he admitted to being in
love with me, and yet as soon as the Kiddo came back into is life, he jumped
into bed with him. And of course, this would have been unstoppable, even if we
now had the most fantastic affair, which would have been if he did not have a
psychological blockage about sex in the first place. And God knows now what my
feelings for Stephen in
about finishing our film script myself. It is obvious anyway that while the
Kiddo is in his life, there is simply no way he will write another line. Too
busy, as he say, with his experiment, learning from a sad screwed up mind,
pretending that it is an inspiration for his art. I donít doubt it, his best
song was inspired by the kid. Just from Leonardoís ramblings about it, I could myself
write the lyrics of a whole album tonight, if I had a bottle of wine,
On my way to work
every morning, I have to cross the parking lot of a shopping center, completely
empty in the morning. Every time I reach that bit of open space, seeing the
great mountains of the
Leonardo was still
saying tonight that soon I would have that huge house in the mountains, near
interesting to find out if everything I am writing here will come true. Should
not be hard to find out even if I go back to London, his father is busy writing
his adopted sonís life on a daily basis, turns it into bestselling books and
successful movies. He already got $250,000 for that last film, and got a
percentage of the profits of the film, played by great actors. Somehow I feel
that I would have written the exact same book, and none of this would have
happened. It pays to be connected and have some background in
14 April 2006
Iíve been going through some sort of crisis today. Been thinking of suicide and all. I told the Leonardo when he called. He suggested coming here, I deflected that idea. Now I wish I had not. I would have fall into his arms with deep love, as if nothing ever came before him, and nothing after him would ever come. I guess he missed his big chance with me. Tonight I was vulnerable, I wonít be tomorrow.
It is rare that I would so openly admit that I wish to die, and today I certainly did, twice at work, and on the phone to Leonardo. Iíve got to be careful, Iíve got to keep these state of mind to myself. I donít need help, I donít need reassurance, no one can help me, when Iím in those states of mind. It is not a cry for help. It is, but Iím beyond expecting a savior from the outside. Not of this world anyway.
And yet, he
offered to come over here, and said clearly, to take me in his arms. Maybe this
is what I ultimately need right now, I donít know. I would not spit on that,
thatís for sure. Iím so desperate, and so alone. One of those things about
human nature, that need to not be alone, to share our lives with someone else.
I donít like it, I would like to free myself from it. It seems to me that we
were pre-programmed for that kind of shite, to insure humanityís future, and
yet, Iím gay, and yet, I still feel that need with another man, and yet, it
could never insure humanityís future. I wish to be beyond that programming, not
feel that deep need for affection, love, sex, etc. I am beyond the programming,
which might explain why I wish to die, to escape it, escape the design, what
was expected of me, even if along the way something went wrong with me, and
that I am, as many say, going against nature. Who want to follow nature anyway?
Who programmed us in the first place? No need to follow that need blindly, no
need to fall into the trap of what we were supposed to be and do. Iím beyond
all that. Iíll go beyond the programming, Iíll understand beyond God, I will
show the light at the end of the endless tunnel, Iíll make it all clear
somehow, that great design, and prove that we do not need to fall into the
trap, follow what our nature should be, rebel against all authority, and
finally be free. And thatís perhaps what has been bothering me so much. Find
that ultimate freedom, which can only come from a full understanding of what we
are all about, assuming weíre not in the first place just victims of
If there is anything greater than me in this universe, I never even got a glimpse of it. Not even one hint to follow and investigate. Weíre very alone down here, which suggest that we were not supposed to be in the first place, weíre just a by-product, insignificant, not supposed to be, and it does not matter anyhow. Evolution might have got us to the point where we have some sort of awareness, capable of making us wonder about what this world is all about, why we are here or just even exist, but in the end, it just happened, and we got to that point even without any reason for it, without planning from anyone, something that happened, but ultimately was not really changing anything, or was not that important anyhow. Weíre only bugs after all, and we all know what that means, we walk and kill bugs everyday on our way to work, we donít even think twice about it. It is just unfortunate for them, that they were on our path at that time. Theyíre dead now, weíre dead now, and thatís the end of it. Thereís no more beyond that which needs to be said or considered. Just accept it. Weíre no more important than bugs in this universe, weíre insignificant, no matter how much we would love to believe otherwise. This universe was not created for us, weíre a by-product, nothing more. I will gladly die any day and end this quest once and for all.
This is the only conclusion I can achieve, Iím afraid to admit. No religion will make me think otherwise. Thereís nothing that created us, we just happened. If there is something higher than us, it certainly does not, and cannot care, for us. And I am not disturbed by this. I accept it. At the same time I accept that my life is not that important, and dying at any time makes no difference. Better be sooner, rather than later, so I can end this suffering. Thereís no need for it to be eternal. Just turn the damn computer off.
Iím so desperate right now, to find any motivation to continue to live. I canít find any reason to do so. My God, I could so easily end my life tonight, without thinking twice about it. I donít think I have ever been so determined, I donít think I have ever reached that point before. Iím afraid, nothing could change my mind. There is no point to this life, no point in being alive, I just donít care about anything. Iíve reached rock bottom again, and this time, nothing will save me, no lost hope in any different mind set. That is it, it is over. I have no longer any desire to continue this existence.
20 April 2006
That is it, Iíve
finished my two other books, and here is the remaining place where I can talk.
Something is going to happen any second now, my life is about to change on a
massive scale. Iíll switch countries, that is the minimum. It should no happen
in over a month, it should happen now, cos I wonít have anything to say for
that month, whatever happens. I donít have the mean anymore, my two books are
finished, all within six months, barely believable, but it happened. I have
nothing else to say now, I need to be shipped out of
I guess my life
here could have been much more impressive, meeting people everyone on this
planet knows. But then again, I donít care that it did not happen. The books
have been written now, it would make no sense to input that kind of stuff now.
It would mean a new life, new books, and I am not willing to stick around in
Iím glad those
books are finished. Iím worried that I may still be here for one month and ten
days. Thatís too much, things might happen, and I full of things happening to
me. I donít want anything else happening to me, for the rest of my life in
fact. I want to go back to
I may or may not
have this wish to die, I will only know once I get out of here and go back to
here for me, I guess I always knew it. The real purpose was for me to write
those two books, and itís done now. I can flee, as far as I can, as quickly as
I can. Fuck
Well, it is true that I still have to go through my first conference with that company, so I know everything there is to know about how to produce a conference from beginning to end. However I feel I can take from here, I can invent a better to do all this. That bitch at work tried to convinced me that I was trying to reinvent the wheel, but I think it is them who are trying to reinvent the wheel. If I were to produce my conferences the way they do, Iíll never achieve anything, Iíll be dying under a mountain of bureaucracy. So I donít care to learn it all till the end. It is their system, it wonít be mine.
So, Iím ready to
leave now. Destiny! Make it happen, invent a reason, for me to be out of here within
days. I canít stand the damn place, I canít stand
Leonardo left a
message tonight, I did not hear, cos I was listening to Morrissey. Funny how he
is so not important in my life anymore. I felt like he already belong to the
past, that I was already moving on to better days. I donít want to hear his
winging anymore, I need to free myself from all that, from
Iím already packing my bags, Iíll abandon just about everything I bought in the last few months, I donít give a shit anymore. My two books are finished, my mission is accomplished.
I had to leave to
16 May 2006
Itís been a while since I wrote here, because nothing was happening on that front, and what was happening was of no interest. A few things happened lately, and to be honest, it is still of no interest.
Well Iím drunk tonight, letís see if I can remember anything, the basics of it anyway. I discovered that Leonardo was reticent to tell me anything from fears it might all end up here in my blog. I told him the truth, that it is all here for everyone to read, but that no one would make the connection to him. He is already living in this paranoid world where he might have succeeded, and some sangsues (things that suck your blood) are out there trying to cash in on his success. I canít think of noting more boring than trying to cash in on his eventual success, who cares. I donít even need to say who he is to make a book memorable, stating his name might actually destroy it all. Just need to say that he is a number one worldwide, and thatís enough, it leaves everything else to imagination, much better in any case.
Well, in my paranoid state of wanting to shut the outside world completely whenever I have a minute off from work, Iíve ignored the poor bastard. The problem is that he only works on the book after we had a good three hours talk about what should happen next, and since the story is all in my head, that he has to write it, and that he seems to have no imagination, I better talk to him once in a while.
The poor guy was so desperate to see me, he stopped by uninvited last Friday. I was not too happy about it, and yet I did not show it. Perhaps because I know too well I would have said no if he did ask if he could stop by, I was so dead from my week of hell at work. So we talked all night, deep conversations, so deep, I never thought these thoughts could actually be expressed outside of my being. We were drunk after all. I canít exactly remember what we talked about, but it was enough to throw him into a real existential crisis the next day. I guess Iíve been too honest with him.
I apparently told him that with his Kiddo, he really handled things badly, that it was inexcusable. And I was more right than I thought initially, since he finally told me the whole truth about what really happen that last day he saw him. After making sure I would write it here. It is so boring and insignificant, that I would not even have bothered in the first place. And yet, it is killing him right now. He feels thatís he is not Jesus-Christ or Gandy after all. He has petty and selfish thoughts, the kind I would never have, and feels guilt about it. He also feels like he succeeded in destroying all his friendships, and does not understand why. He believes he has a dark side which comes up here and there, destroying everything on its path, when all he really wants is to actually help this planet get out of its misery.
destroyed our friendship with one message left on my answering machine. He was
so damn rude, because I was not picking up the phone when I was drunk and
writing all night long, I almost there and then told him that I did need that
kind of shit in my life, and friends taking over your life, being so needy that
they need to see you all the time and call you everyday. Weíre not in love as
far as I can tell, we could not even have sex for a start. So I should not be
expected to act like a boyfriend. As with my real boyfriend, I canít stand
being disconnected for more than a week, and when we are in the same town, for
more than a few hours. Thatís what love is all about, and obviously if heís in
love with me, that news to me, and I donít really care. Thereís only one person
I love right now, and Iíve been faithful to him for the last few months, once I
understood that, while considering that perhaps I could start all over again
My God, I think Iíve told you all already, of all that happens between us lately. Less than two pages. This friendship is dying, thatís for sure. I wish I could speed up the process and not feel like I have to talk to him every day. Gosh, I need to find a way out somehow, it is becoming unbearable, and he just does not get the message that I wish to be left alone. Thereís a lot to be said about friends who only call you out on a blue moon, who have a life of their own, who donít give a shit about you. Because thatís what I need right now. Not a sangsue. But thatís what happens when your friends are not working all day, waiting to finally speak to you after your day of hell at work, when you only want to disconnect from the rest of this planet. Shit, heís so smelly as well, I would think that not having full time job would give you the time to have a shower, but not him, he seems to hate doing the laundry or washing himself. Thatís just not acceptable to me, not when these friends still hope that something might happen. Such a lack of respect. It tells you only one thing, go to hell where you belong. And now I understand why he might be worried about what Iím saying here, on the dawn of his undeniable global success about to come.
So annoying, so demanding, what will it be once he actually becomes a star? When I know very well that one way or another, it would not change anything to my own life? Heís not about to poor a few millions my way at any rate, so whether he is the most successful person on the planet or not, I can only judge him and decide if I want to be his friend based on who he is and what a friendship with him requires from me. Something I simply cannot give or afford. I have no time, I have no money, I have no interest, get lost, thatís all I can say. I donít care how rich you become, I know it does not mean in any way that I am rich. This wonít lure me in. I donít really care. I still cherish my freedom, the few minutes I have to myself after work, before I have to go back. As simple as that, or else, I just go stir crazy and wish to kill myself. Thatís where I am now, so nothing could help or change that. More shit can only push me over the limit. And thatís what it is a friendship with him, more shit, more guilt trip, I donít need that, whatever the circumstances.
Oh dear, my only
His behavior and
some reasoningís have been astonishing to me lately. Like the one of a
desperate man willing to sacrifice everything for an ounce of marihuana. How
sad is that? At the dawn of your success? Only once in my life I got myself in
a situation where I have lost friends because I wanted them to pay me a pint of
beer, when I was at the bottom of my existence living in
20 May 2006
I have again spent
the whole day and the whole night with Leonardo yesterday. Nothing sexual,
donít worry. I did not want to simply waste my next day, because he will never
leave once he is here, I thought it could be done quickly, again, I was
mistaken. He was supposed to get here early, like Noon, he arrived here at 6
pm, after letting me wait all day. We went to eat, to the cinema see Da Vinci
Code and then came back here to record his music on CDs and make backups for
his investors. And then, it took forever for him to finally get out. And again
I was too polite to shout at him: all right, it is enough, get out now, know
when it is the time to leave. And the worst thing is that he was aware, very
much so, and kept repeating that he was sorry that he was eating away all my
time, and that he knew I was tired, and thanking me for my patience, and yet he
would not leave! The same reason I missed my planet for
And I spent almost $100. I usually would not care for that, but I have to say, he is quite a drain on me and I simply cannot afford it at the moment. I paid for his gas, for the restaurant, the cinema, the coffee afterwards, the alcohol at my place and the cigarettes. I donít understand why I even mention this, it is not me, and yet, one cannot stop thinking that he is being taken advantage of at some point and has to realize that this cannot continue. I was about to buy him a cartridge of ink for his printer, costs a fortune, but we did not get the chance, the shop was closed as he was too late getting here. And he mentioned that without paying $500 for his truck, it might actually be repossessed soon, and I looked at him and I said, sorry, my tax return would go for my baby in London first, which I am not even doing to help him get out of the hole, because I will need that money to go back to London.
And then we talked about how he managed to lose just about every single friend he ever had. First by giving too much of himself, second by expecting too much in return, and eventually not getting back what he gives. And hence, trouble start. Also that he can really become too much, taking all the place in oneís life, being too needy and demanding, and so dependent on others to achieve anything, like doing a damn CD backup of his music, when heís got the computer at home to do it, and the instructions, and yet, he is not capable of doing it.
Weíre talking here about a man whoís just written up an essay of 25 pages for his best friend, for a university final paper, and got 90%. And yet, he never managed to finish his high school. Weíre talking about someone here who knows just about everything about everything, all self taught, and yet has no degree whatsoever and everyone treats him like a low life form. Someone who never had one piano lesson, and yet, has now composed the most elaborate songs Iíve heard, playing many instruments and can even produce the whole thing in the studio. Someone also whoís came up with the greatest theories about the universe, worthy of a genius, but like me limited in the sense that he lacks the proper knowledge to present it in a way acceptable for any science magazine. And at that, you can add a fine mind for science-fiction and a gifted author who can write better than many people Iíve known and read.
So what is this
guy? A genius? Or the most flawed and dysfunctional human being on the planet?
The only analogy I have to describe him fully, is via an episode of Star Trek
the Next Generation. When that engineer is somehow overpowered by aliens and
suddenly becomes a genius, to the point that he connects himself to the
computer in the holodeck, becomes the computer of the ship, brings the
One thing I know, is that this the kind of person who succeeds, I thought I was weird, marginal, thinking differently and all, he is the jack pot, and hence, will most certainly succeed on a massive scale in probably more than one domain, as he is also an inventor, and from what I can understand, a few of his inventions could make it big and change many things around here. Yet, he seems to be dyslexic to me, annoying even in the way he works, and how slowly as well. And probably would not get anywhere without complete guidance from others, telling him what to do, since he is too lost in his mind to see clearly about his duties and responsibilities, even the ones about how to achieve his goals of succeeding in music and writing. Oh, have I mentioned that he is an accomplished actor? And that he also blew with a series of missed opportunities on the scale you have never seen, preventing him to finally emerge out of the bunch from all the second rate roles he ever got. And if that was not enough, to have succeeded at that, he will now succeed on a huge scale musically, and if that fails, heís got the book weíre writing to fall back on, as this could also be huge. And without me at the moment, all of this would again be a series of missed opportunities, because I am quite convinced that he could sit forever on a damn demo tape heís got to give to his investors to get the ball rolling. It has been months, heís got everything at home to record the damn thing, and all the time in the world to do so, and yet, managed somehow to not do anything about it. I finally had to understand that he already had five of the six songs he wanted to record on CDs recorded in the past in studios. What the heck? Why does he want to record them again, in such poor quality? Oh a word has changed, a few chords here and there. Gosh! I had to tell him to come over here and finally I have put 7 tracks on a CD, and thatís it, heís got what he needs now to open that great door of his musical success. Lacking in determination like that is very sad, and being stopped by something as stupid as ďI need to do labels for the CDs, it might take me six monthsĒ, and it did, so I gave him my pen to write on CDs, and I said: forget the labels, write it down, we might speed of the process then, and it will take one night to achieve this instead of a year.
I have been quite blunt with him recently, about his flaws making him very difficult to just being his friend, without screwing my whole existence in the process. And if we are to continue this friendship once he becomes rich, and want to start this production company with me and my boyfriend that he intends to import here with our zoo, I will have to be even more blunt and write that parameters and limits. Otherwise, the price is just too high to pay, and I donít care how rich he might become and how this will give me all the freedom in the world, it is just not worth it. So at the moment I am helping him for his own sake only, not mine, as I have no ulterior motives here, I donít expect anything in return, I would not even accept it.
And the thing is, he knows all about this. And that is why he believes I am so special. Because his experience out there with others who simply in time just took advantage of him, mind you, after he walked in there with open arms to help them out in a capacity which is beyond measure, all his hard work with them has turned nasty. Because no one is like him or me, no one will give back, no one will return friendship on that scale, and everyone is too willing to just take advantage of you and profit from you. An even more disgusting side of humanity which I have not yet fully experienced, while it seems to be the story of his life.
With well defined
boundaries, and the usual nightmarish meeting that never ends, while still
keeping a distance, I could perhaps work with him, still be his friend, though
I donít really want to, I could somehow make it work. He listens, he learns
from what I say, he acts upon it, he is not totally useless as a human being. I
went about it the wrong way by no longer answering the phone, and avoiding
meeting him for so long. Communication there would have saved me a lot of
trouble afterwards, but it led to me explaining to him how he could just walk
into my life, take over my life, call every night for hours, come here for days
and wreck my hard schedule as a worker in full time employment, pushing me to
the limits of friendship and all, etc. And so flawed in everything he tells me,
his way of thinking about his friends, constantly talking about proving this
and that if it ends in a court case, and talking about suing people for any
reason, and defending himself if he gets sued, in what world is he living? I
spend hours telling him what he did wrong, how thinking like this is totally
wrong and could certainly explain why it gets to that every time, and what
else? He thinks I am wisdom reincarnated, and he was certainly in bad needs for
any sort of wisdom. When my wisdom is simply common sense, and that hopefully I
am not the only one in
And this brings me
back to what happen to me the very next day I arrived in
Iím here tonight
watching Doctor Who on television, Iím so excited about it, last time I was that
excited about a TV program, was when I first watched Star Trek The Next
Generation. And I was not that excited the first time I watched this new series
of Doctor Who in
He just called, I
told him about moving to
When youíve got
something, you donít want to lose it. When you have nothing, you cannot lose
anything, and therefore when the call comes to bring you to
Sebastian did not want to follow me in Europe, he did in the end, ad I guess he was right, he came back with $20,000 less in his pockets, even though not a penny has been spent on me, I somehow sustained myself despite having nothing. So I guess Stephen may also be right, I am inviting problems, troubles, crisis, and the likes.
Why? I canít stay in one place, I have nothing except perhaps love once in a while, to stop me in my projects, my dreams of achieving something with this life, to see the world and go for the adventure, away from the routine which in the last decade nearly killed me. Iím sorry, perhaps I should be alone in this world, or find someone like me. And I donít think this is Leonardo.
Nice to be able to
chuck a $60,000 a year job, without thinking too much about it, whenever I
canít stand the people Iím working with, even though I know I might never get a
higher salary again in my lifetime. Well, I was paid more in one of my previous
jobs, to actually, then again in
Too big a dose of reality today, I need to escape. I would need a good book, lose myself in it, but it would cost money, it would show on my bank statement, could put me in dire straight with my creditors. Iím too tired anyway to find a good book to read over the Internet. I have over 5,000 books in my library on my computer, not one seems interesting enough despite all the classics in the public domain that it contains. I think Science Fiction was invented in 1979 when Star Wars came out, before that, thereís not much to read.
23 May 2006
I just had the weirdest vivid dream. A mismatched of just about everything. Time travel, parallel worlds, world of the dead and demons and possibly aliens. I donít even know where to begin.
First I was in a house where the parents of Stephen were also living. We appeared to be living together at first, and I had a special computer capable somehow of opening a window as large as a door. And we got to meet the parents of Stephen, but from the year 1905. Since we are in 2006 right, it looks like this was a 100 year leap into the past. They could come in, we could in, and they did, and we did. Actually, they did not look like his parents, more like his grand parents, well in fact Iím not sure who they were. They were still alive today, and 100 years ago they were slimmer, better looking, but already in their 20ís I would say, even if they looked older than what they must have been. We were talking, and they talked with themselves in the future, as if it was normal, an exchange of knowledge, I donít know, we did not have much to say.
There was also a park with trees, and there I was meeting some other weird people, but I canít remember now who they were, now I think they might have been aliens. They asking about an anomaly they had identified, the man from 1905 walking on the grass before. I told them that yes, there was something about him, that he was from a parallel universe. I only discovered later that he was actually from the past, before then I assumed he was from a parallel universe. And this is all I can remember about these other people who could have been from a parallel universe also, but more clued up.
Then my room got larger, by the minute I thought it was fusing with other rooms from another world, or was it just that by changing the past the room was now changing and getting bigger, as we got richer? I think it was the fusing of other rooms from other worlds because there were other people there now living with us, sharing the space, and we accepted that, this new reality. These people reminded me of my family from the side of my father, thatís how I perceived them, family of some sort.
And then I was in that new big room adjacent to my initial bedroom, in a house, where the family on the side of my mother were there to celebrate Christmas. There were strangers there, these new strangers we were sharing the space with. They were not accustomed to our ways, they were welcome to witness it, to be part of it. I could not tell if they were from the past, but I did not think so. From another world? Parallel universe? It seemed so to me.
And as usual when I dream about my family, my grand mother is always there in the background, she talks even in answer to what other people say, no one answer back, because she is dead in real life and Iím the only one who sees her. And then she was in the kitchen with us, I was saying that she was there, how could they miss her, when she had been present to all our gathering for so many years, despite no longer be in this world? And I grabbed her, I took her in my arms, and I cried. Up until then, my grand mother had been, it seems, unaware that I could see her and have been able to see her for the whole time our gathering lasted. She seemed surprise when I took her in my arms.
After that we were in the living room or a bedroom, and on the bed was my grand mother, placed as if she was dead, for people to come and pay their respects. I was talking with my aunt Sonia, she was saying that she too was receiving the visit of my grand mother in the morning, it had happened many times before and she was also afraid of all this. She told me she had a few books about it that she intended to read, but had not yet found the time. I was in such a shock, that I grabbed the hand of my grand mother who was in the bed, she came alive, and I was crying like crazy, taking her in my arms again.
And my aunt acted as if she was there, but could not see her. I asked her, do you see her? She was trying to tell me something, and then my real grand mother appeared in the background with a Kodak, as if she intended to take photos, and the one on the bed, her nose got very long and thin, and bent downward. And it did not seem to click in my mind until I woke up that it was not her on the bed. This is all I could repeat to myself, that it was not her. I had been tricked, it was a demon or something. And my real grand mother appeared in the background to tell me, to show me that I was crying at the wrong tree. I was in such a state by then, I could not even speak anymore, everything I was trying to say just would come out. Then I woke up, frightened, that my grand mother would actually be standing there in front of me in the real world.
I had many similar
dreams where my grand mother was there, not doing much, always with family
around just as it should be, as it was, so I would not question the fact that
she was there. It is unclear in my mind that she is dead, I did not go to the
funeral, I was in
I had some conversations with her, but of course always very limited, and instead of it being about where she is now, what sort of life has she got in the realm of the dead, it is more about stupidities about my life, as if she could not speak of important stuff, things that could remind me in my dream that she is in fact dead, and talking to her should by definition be an impossibility. She seems to be trying to reach out for me, though I did not get the feeling she had anything to tell me specifically, more like she wants to spend some time with me. Unless Iím just not ready yet to get to the point of being confronted with her, fully aware that she is dead, and capable of having a normal conversation despite the fact that she is dead. So perhaps it will come, if I let it come. But after tonight it will be more difficult, if she can be replaced by some sort of fake one, pretending to be her, and whoís up to no good.
There were many signs that it was not her, she was dresses in yellow, my grand mother never did. She was calling to me, wanting me to take her hand, my grand mother never did either in all my previous dreams. And her nose became distorted, like the one of a witch, but believe me, in dreams, it did not seem to stop me at the time from loving her and taking her in my arms. I barely noticed the deformity though it was quite evident and for a second I did wonder about it. And even when there were two of them, that my real grand mother appeared in the background dressed with her eternal green top, I still ignored her to cry in the arms of the fake one. What about that? Logic or good judgment does not seem to exist in dreams. Very dangerous indeed.
Well, in all this was quite a dream. Opening some sort of doorway first in time, to 1905, then in space as it brought me back home, it brought back everyone together and we were to share that space, then a doorway to a parallel universe, capable of changing the configuration of my rooms, also a doorway to some alien world, not sure where those ones come from, and finally a doorway to the world of the dead, and demons, or should I say, the living dead. If somehow this does not inspire me a film script, I would be surprised. I would love to get my hands on that computer I had which started all that at the beginning of my dream, I wonder how it worked, and it could open these doorways all around the place, until there were no more doorways, these worlds were suddenly fusing together, and we all found ourselves in the same room, people from the past, people from far away, people from parallel worlds strangers to our customs, aliens, dead people and demons. The only one missing was God! Might be dangerous too, I guess, but at the time it seemed okay.
Leonardo called me
tonight to tell me that he went to drop the CD to his doctor today. He told him
that he had some people interested in having his song in their film, and now
Leonardo went in overdrive. He was talking about buying a house for me and
Stephen around here so we could continue to work together on our projects,
including music. Sounds very tempting, a nice dream, and I played along, hope
is important in the accomplishment of our dreams. It would be too good to be
true, of course I cannot depend on any of that, it could still be months away
and I will be gone by then, having started a new chapter of my life with
Stephen in London. Somehow I hope this could become true, that we could be
working on projects here in
I wrote what was
above at 4h30 am, Iím now back from work. I can finally talk a little bit more
about whatís happening in Leonardoís life. Now I know why destiny kept me here
so long, long enough to get the Leonardo somewhere and establish a real
friendship, one that will not be broken so easily. It is true that heís in
desperate need of guidance, he could easily forget to do anything, could easily
walk into any trap laying around. And for some reason, he always seemed prone
to meet the people who will take advantage of him. I donít really want to
profit from him, I donít really believe anything he says he will do once he
gets rich, I donít intend to be around to profit from it when and if it
happens. I know the price will be too much to pay, I would only accept if I
know that we both benefit 100% from my staying in
That guy did not need me anyway to get where he is heading, and he wonít need me afterwards either, many people have already taken the responsibility to make sure he wonít get screwed up, no doubt smelling the money, and hence, they might be the most dangerous ones. Leonardo has a blind faith in all of them, my God, he is heading for utter destruction. The only positive thing is that all these Jewish people trying hard to make his music happens, are clued up and wonít let him sign any detrimental contract. I just hope they donít intend to collect millions in the process. Though, if it is the only way to make it happen, and even if they collect their millions and that there are many left, then I guess it would have been all worth it. Hail to the Jewish people and their connections. They are our saviors, well Leonardoís saviors anyway, as Iím not part of any of it, despite his emphasis that this means our success, not only his.
I have no doubt I
will finish that film script myself, no problem, as soon as I have a minute off
work, Iíll get right on to it. And Leonardoís connection can then become my
saviors too. I donít believe that for a second, still, one needs to have hope
in a better world, where freedom exists. And I am certainly in deep need of any
kind of freedom, even the one of going back to the
6 June 2006
The big day has finally arrived for Leonardo, a great offer that should be hard to refuse, if it goes through. I was expecting something to happen, sooner rather than later since it was obvious anyone with any power hearing his music would just instantly think dollar signs, however for Leonardo it has been years of waiting and nothing was suggesting that it would change anytime soon. Perhaps he even connects these recent events to my own energy and enthusiasm, as I have been some sort of hurricane in his life since my arrival. Sort of, in the sense that he has given me so much attention, calling almost everyday up to recently, and talking for hours, that surely just about everything else in his life must have gone to the back burner.
So now this new
offer is a rich man from
Of course Leonardo
has got carried away, talking about hiring my boyfriend as a personal assistant
in order to keep me close to him, be it in
What worries me a bit is that the guy is not connected to any record company, and intends to pay for everything himself, including the marketing I suppose. No matter how rich you are, can you achieve that, put an album out and make millions? Can you make an artist go number one worldwide on your own without the help of a big record company? God knows, the man seems confident enough, perhaps he can. Anyway, Leonardoís songs are so perfect that they would stand on their own with or without a recognized record company in the background. Of course, we have seen many work of genius never going mainstream because they were attached to an independent company, however in this case it is so impressive that it might just work no matter the indie company producing it. I wish I could state the same for my own books, however this is unlikely to ever happens.
It is weird, I
think Leonardo really believes that this is it, he is now rich before even
selling one album. That he can already hire my boyfriend and me by the sa,e
token, as I would live out of the salary of Stephen whilst continuing our work
on the film scripts and even songs. I just donít want to be carried away, be
disappointed for hoping too much, especially whilst facing such a farfetched
possibility, and that even if it was to really happen, I know very well that it
could only be for a little while, before everything crumbles to dust. But of
course I would love it, leaving for
Funny, we discussed that possibility before, of Leonardo suddenly becoming rich and somehow hiring both Stephen and I to work for him in some capacity, perhaps even some sort of production house. And I even talked about it to Stephen who appeared interested at the time. I never thought this could come so quickly, this opportunity which seemed to be only a dream a week ago. And yet, I am far from thinking like Leonardo that he will be able to hire us right now, though it could be possible. If that Asian man goes for it and pays for a whole orchestra and a team of technicians and sound engineers, and go for booking venues and selling tickets, then we are talking about a full company that he is putting together, in which case anything is possible.
There is something
else also that I wanted to bring back here. It is that famous dream Leonardo
had which showed that I bought a house around
I have no idea
what really awaits me or Leonardo, or even Stephen. I really believe though
that it is not a coincidence if Stephen just lost his job and that has been
preventing me from returning to
Iím not completely convinced that Leonardo needs us, or that it would be really worth it. I donít understand what it is that he sees in me that makes me such a worthwhile friend in which so much should be invested, unless he really had crappy friends in his old days.
At the same time,
last Friday on my way to work, or what is two days ago whilst I was walking in
the streets of Philadelphia at 3 am, well, I was thinking that I would give a
lot right now to have even a glimpse into my future, as really from here it
could be anything, I could end up anywhere, I have absolutely no confirm plan
whatsoever. And then I though that I did get a glimpse into my future, from a
psychic medium, Leonardo, and that the future was bright, and moreover in
At the same time I
cannot deny that somehow I have been shipped to
7 June 2006
Last day of the
conference. In one hour I will start packing my boxes and get ready to leave
I have to say that
the Double Tree Hotel in downtown
I was thinking this morning, what would I do if I was suddenly rich? And sure enough I was thinking that I would start my own company, find myself some sort of luxurious venue, so I could rent the place to others whilst having my own conferences without costing me an arm and a leg.
An old cinema
would do very nicely, however I should think a nice building made of
transparent glass might be better, right in the middle of the woods. However if
it is hard to reach, it would be a bit useless. And Iíve got to be near an
important airport, or near a town centre, and perhaps
And this is when it occurred to me that I did not even need to be rich to do so, it would just give me the security I need, as if I were to fail miserably with my first events, it would not matter much. But if Iím poor like now, and it fails, well, it is a second bankruptcy for me and Stephen. We would lose everything. You wonder then if it would be all worth it. Being rich would mean taking huge risks on topics no one covers in the conference industry. Being poor would mean covering the exact same topics as most of my competitors, as clearly there is money in those fields, whilst no one can be quite sure about uncovered topics. So if I were rich, I could discover a string of subjects which could fill amphitheatres worldwide. And now I understand that rich or poor, this is now a challenge I would like to take on.
But as usual, my
life is so unpredictable, I have no clue where it will lead in the next few
years, months and even weeks. Leonardo tells me that after all my messages to
him, he met the rich Asian man again, and is now more confident than ever that
this is a dream come true, and that, despite that I reviewed with him just
about any pitfall imaginable. Is there a future for him in all this, perhaps.
Is there a future for me in all this? Iím not sure. Is there a future for my Stephen
in all this? I doubt so, another miracle would be in order. And very likely I
will not abandon him to pursue foolish dreams where I would still be just an
employee. The only reason it could make sense for me to follow Leonardo, was if
we were to work together on certain projects. A film script is not enough, as I
can work on that from
18 June 2006
Leonardoís new investor has finally proven himself to being full of air, and so Leonardo is back to square one hoping to get his music somewhere as quickly as he can, as he feels his heart problems could kill him within years, if not months.
It was nice to
think for a while of a different possible future, one where I would not go back
Yesterday Leonardo made me what could only be called a marriage proposal, almost the old fashion way. He said I would be the only person he has met in the last 45 years that he could bring to his parents and say: this is the person I am the most proud of in my life.
I have to say, it
was charming. And we talk some more about a possible future together, but at
the moment it seems to me that my future is with Stephen back in
31 June 2006
Since I stopped
working for that hell conference job, I had plenty of time on my hands. My last
few hours were Monday, today is Thursday. I have used these days to decompress
from the hell life I had, and naturally, following such a change, depression
follows, days of not wanting to do anything, trying to adapt to a new pace. I
did not feel like doing anything, least work on that film script now novel that
he never stopped working on. I admire his energy, which I simply do not have at
this time. I wish I could make him understand that my mind is way far from
here, already in
I am finishing
reading every single story ever written concerning Sherlock Holmes by Arthur
Conan Doyle, so I have already been going in my mind all around
I thought anyway
that I would enjoy those last few days in
†On Sunday Leonardo is coming here early. I
guess he will sleep over, maybe not. I would prefer not, considering that I am
going back to my baby. It is too late now to sleep together. Even thought I
need to know more about any possible future with him, because if it fails
miserably with my baby in
Iím so tired of
Leonardo in fact, that I thought that resigning from my job, was like getting
rid of him at the same time. It has not been the case. He wants to work on that
project of ours, when I simply donít feel like it. And tomorrow I have to work
on that all day, and I simply donít feel like it. What am I gonna do? Will I
find the energy and motivation somewhere? Whilst all my papers are on the
floor, being carefully classified between what needs to be thrown away, what
needs to come back with me, and what can be posted to me, whilst it will take
four to six months to reach me in
I could say a lot
about post, how expensive it is to send anything by plane, and how useless it
is to send it by boat. If I were to describe here my short experience about it,
people would never believe that I am living in the years 2000. They would think
I was talking about a state of affair at the time of Sherlock Holmes, at the
turn of the 1900ís. I think it will cost me $400 to ship my things fast to
The truth is, Iíll
be happy to get rid of Leonardo once I o back to
I have already
forgotten the place I used to work in, forgotten all those people, my bosses,
and by the time I reach
I want to forget
everything. I want to erase that period of my life. Iím searching in my memory,
for anything positive, and it is useless. Even my trips to
First rule, I will never have a boss again. Second rule, I will never work in an office again in any sort of hierarchy if I am not at the very top. Third rule, I will never suffer people I donít want to suffer, I should be able to make them disappear from my life instantly, or else, life is not worth living. Letís see if I can live by those three rules from now on.
Have you ever felt
like you were at a turn in your life where you could decide for yourself
exactly what you wanted, and make sure it would happen? I feel like that right
now. This life will be what I want it to be, not what anyone else wants it to
be. Iím gonna take control over it! And if I want to go for a breakfast on
2 July 2006
I have put all my
stuff on sale on a website. A moving sale where I would only recuperate a few
dollars out of the $2000 I spent. Gave me an idea. I think upon my return to
A fraudster tried
to buy my DVD Recorder without paying for it. I canít believe it. I almost fell
for it, as I am so clueless about payment methods in the
4 July 2006
Today has been my
greatest day in
Well, this has
turned into a philosophical trip to
For eight months I heard everything about that young chap of 23 years old via Leonardo. It was quite something to finally meet him. First he was quite shy, he could not look me in the eye, however he is half blind, so nothing extraordinary there. I was kind of hoping he was gay, but then a girl he had not call for the last month called him on his mobile, and he was so desperate to meet her this weekend for an obvious sex session, that he did not even hide, that I guess thereís just no hope for him.
The thing is, that guy is filled with psychological problems, and it is obvious. He blames all the terrible things that happened to him in his childhood, though he would not elaborate. Only saying that he suffered from verbal abuse from his mom. And that his dad was involved in the mafia and was a hit man. How nice must it be to have a murderer as a dad. Poverty, he says, was his childhood. He denies being sexually abused, so I guess we might believe him on that one. Yet, the kid is much more of an anarchist in the term that I define it, than I could ever be.
He is filled with an exhaustible anger, and could explode at any time. That explosion would, for him, mean taking a gun and shooting a few people. What a waste, when you could actually work on a much larger scale, to help society to understand that its progeny is simply completely and irreversibly alienated to breaking point.
He used to be very fat, and has been so obsessed with it, that he started to read everything there was on the subject. It led to further university studies in dietetics and now he is the real thing, a real dietetic sort of person, a nutritionist, or whatever that means. He is still a bit fat and is struggling to lose that weight so he can, I suppose, still attract nice girls he can fuck on weekends.
He did a degree in business management before that, and now he is certainly an explosive mix. He wishes to start a business, and has already invested to much for his own taste, merely $4,000, but that is already a big debt for him. He has now only one purpose in life, get that business started, start a practice, make a six figure salary, be rich within 10 years. He even made me promise that I would not get back to him to get money in the future, whenever he gets rich.
He stated that philosophy is causing big depressions in people, that whenever you meet a philosopher as he claimed to have been, it basically drives you to suicide. I could not deny that, as it is certainly my own situation. Thought I would hate to generalize, Leonardo is after all a philosopher, with the greatest feeling of optimism and happiness. Perhaps he is a mistake of nature, or at the very least an exception.
Overall the kid is
charming, I would not mind sucking his dick. And for most of our trip from
Now at least I see
what Leonardo sees in him. Sad when your dreamt fuck bodies are actually
straight, but thatís just a detail, considering what Leonardo admitted to me
last week. That he can simulate sex in his mind with anyone, and feel that it
is so real, that itís just like the real thing. I wonder how many times he
fancied this happening with Joseph, a thousand times perhaps. The problem is
that whenever Leonardo goes on to simulate sex with anyone in his own mind, on
such a scale that in his mind it seems real, it really does really have an
impact psychologically on the other victim. I know, because whenever Leonardo
had such fancy about me, I knew it, I could feel it, I received clear images in
my head of whatever he was thinking about. I cannot explain this phenomenon,
but it is certainly worth investigating. With his powers, for him to think of
someone when it masturbates, almost equals to a rape. It is quite an
interesting little moral dilemma. He said that whenever he masturbates thinking
about his kiddo, the kiddo calls him, even after months of silence. So it is
certainly powerful. A powerful weapon. Apparently I could learn the trick,
since Leonardo taught it to his kiddo and his other friend, which both use in
some sort of devilish plan to control the planet. Fortunately I believe they
both failed miserably as they lack the abilities of Leonardo in such matters.
Not even sure if I could trust myself if I had such powers. There are many
books on the market about that subject, of how you can actually control
everyone around you to reach success and fortune. But at a level much higher in
the case of Leonardo, with what he calls his powers of psychic medium.
Frightening. Worth investigating, and I will certainly plague him with
questions tomorrow or Friday when we meet again, for perhaps the last time
before my departure to
Many times now in the last few months Leonardo has tried to sleep him, and every time I prevented it from happening, not sure why. He wanted to sleep here again on my last day next week, before he has to drive me to the Airport LAX at six in the morning. I said no. Iím still wondering if it is because he wants sex with me, I think Iím just afraid it will again turn to nightmare. I still remember him saying that he did not want my dick on him, that it was turning him off. I canít imagine that it would have changed now, even if in between he virtually proposed marriage to me. Something must have changed in his brain, however better leave it to his own imagination. I donít need any more traumatic event just before finding myself once again in the arms of my real boyfriend, who just love to have my dick all over him. Or so I hope anyway, Iíve been wondering if it is just companionship that he is after, the fear of finishing his days alone with only a zoo to content him. Iíve been saving myself for Stephen, being faithful and all, but he better make it worthwhile upon my return, I want sex at least twice a week, or else Iíll be looking on the side. Sorry, I could have sex three times a day, Iím a real animal though I despise those animal instincts. So I better be satisfied in that domain, or else it is not worth having a boyfriend.
And now letís talk about Leonardoís landlady, Tania. I have to admit, it has been a traumatic experience. It really reached me deep down in my deepest fear. I cannot describe it any other way, what sheís going through, is my biggest fear ever. And it can simply be described as being stuck in a time loop. And yet, I canít imagine anything worse.
Her deep psychological problem has been identified as a compulsive disorder. Sounds almost harmless stated like that, but my God, Iím telling you, death would be by far preferable.
I think I started her big compulsive disorder for the day. I tried to read what was written on the T-Shirt of Joseph, and I have to say, it was not easy to remember. He is part of an association called, and I had to painfully memorize it today, The Student Dietetic Food and Science Association. That was just too much for the poor mind of our landlady. She had to memorize it and it became her obsession of the day. I tell you, all day, she has been repeating it aloud and asking every single five minutes what it was again. She was stuck in a time loop and could only concentrate on that name that she constantly repeated to herself and verifying if she was right in what she thought it was.
And since the kid is prone to anger and violence, his patience was really running thin. I thought that if she had asked it one more time at the end of the day, he would have hit her to death. The clashing of both these personalities was such a lesson to me, I loved it to the extreme. I can only say that Leonardo is a saint, to be able to suffer that all day, not sure if I could, perhaps I could, but what a life that would be.
It was a very traumatic experience, because I fear it could easily happen to me. The frontier between sanity and insanity is so thin, especially when you have some experience of the problem, that it is always possible that you could easily yourself reach that state of mind.
The fact is, whenever I have a big fever or whenever I work all day at one single task, trying to solve a problem or finish a long task, what happen to me during my sleep, is that I repeat over and over the same task, trying to finally accomplish it in my sleep, and my brain is simply stuck in a time loop. Thankfully I wake up the next day tired, but normal once again, and I can move on. However, god forbid, it could become a permanent problem remaining even in my awake state, just like with Tania. Repeating over and over again in my mind the same sentence that my brain would be trying to process, unsuccessfully. Or trying to continually finish a task that simply will never be concretely accomplished since it is merely virtual in my mind.
Computers, when they reach that cyclic error, have the advantage to be turned off and re-initiated, and then the time loop problem is resolved. In her case, no such thing is possible. The death of her young son brought her to the brink of madness, and she simply cannot get over it.
I cannot explain why Leonardo has not been more specific about her deep psychological blockage except saying that she was suffering from a compulsive disorder, which meant nothing in my mind. That is more that just a compulsive disorder, this is extreme and absolute insanity. No wonder he has been unable to work at all whenever she was awake. She can go on and on asking the same question over and over again until the end of times. This woman should not be driving a car, and her eight car accidents in the last two months alone can testify to it. And yet, she is as free as a bird. Rich no doubt, and yet, completely incapacitated. Sheís off her mind, and sheís a reminder of how easy it would be to reach that state. Very traumatizing indeed. This is exactly where, I fear, a boring routine can bring you. To repeated cyclic days not worth living for. That is why I have been fighting so strongly against any sort of routine, this is why I knew it would kill me. It would simply lock me up in a time loop from which there is no escape.
At one point, at the beginning of the day, when I noticed she was constantly speaking to herself, repeating the same thing over and over again, and before I understood she was suffering from a compulsive disorder, I asked her what she was doing. She answered innocently that she was counting her finances. Harmless enough I thought, my God, I had no idea. She was then stuck on calculating over and over again the state of her finances, and Iím not even sure it what she was stuck on was reflecting her actual finances her some problem of the past which should have long been sent to the back of her brain, never to be remembered again.
My deepest fear is that if somehow after death our consciousness were to somehow survive, it could easily be in that kind of state. Of being stuck on a cyclic error of some desperate and meaningless detail of our lives, that we would turn and turn over and again in our minds until infinity. And ghost stories certainly proves that point. Some apparitions as just that, a murder or terrible sadness being repeated and witness by others, to infinity, years after years.
Better die with all unfinished business actually being finished, or else, god knows, you might be condemned for eternity to turn these problems in your consciousness over and over again, with no possibility of any satisfying conclusion or finality to it.
Iím afraid, the brain is far from being perfect. Just like the processor of a computer, it can be derailed and become useless. And Iím hoping that death, at least, can finally turn the machine off and bring some peace of mind.
This has been an illuminating day, though quite a disturbing one for me. It freaked me out, as I seem to be the only one capable of understanding that this is a real threat to humanity. As perhaps we are all collectively suffering the same faith. It would explain the dťjŗ vu phenomenon for a start, we are simply stuck in a time loop. And if that is not disturbing enough for you, maybe you need your head check up. What else are we going through without even being aware of?
There is one last
person I need to meet before I leave. The other best friend of Leonardo. Iím
just afraid at the prospect. That one I know is a born sucker, who steals
anything from his friends. A spoiled kid from a rich family, though I know that
at least he has got something normal about him, he is gay. So for that alone †I would not mind meeting him, I just hope he
will not also throw me into full existential crisis mode, as I know he is also
plagued with every single neurosis identified so far. Is there any sane
American left on this planet? Iím starting to wonderÖ as it is evident now that
I have not met any sane person since I have arrived in
8 July 2006
I really feel the
end now. I find it hard to believe that I will be back in
Sometimes I feel
like all my problems will be over as soon as I set foot in
I have been quite unsuccessful at selling my stuff, and I donít care. I still need to pack, I wonder if I will be able to bring most of my things. Iím worried about money upon my return, Stephen still does not have a job and his creditors are threatening him with death. It is really time for me to go back and sort him out. Help him find a job over the Internet, make money buying and selling stuff on eBay. Then start that business without any money in order to get both of us somewhere. I wish I had done more work on that business in the last few days, but I instead read all the stories about Sherlock Holmes and watched almost every episodes of the Twilight Zone (the old version). Nothing to be proud of. At least I used that TV a bit, it seems that I wonít be able to sell it, Iíll have to give it away to Leonardo. After these long suffering months of work, I felt like doing nothing.
Yesterday I spent
the day and night with Leonardo, we spoke about many things, especially the
film scripts. We got a contract in order and even went to a notary to get it
official. I will at least leave
We also went to meet the great XXX, I can say that I have seen him on his doorstep, but he refused us entry on the pretext he was sick. The same pretext his other great friend actor used to refuse seeing me for the last nine months. So even meeting powerful people has failed. Iím not sorry, I have learnt that I do not wish to meet anyone, especially anyone famous.
And yet, if I missed XXX, it was because the little friends of Leonardo wanted to meet me. I had not seen Mario yet, met him yesterday. Questionable in nature, good looking guy at any rate, I think he went through my bag whilst we were outside and checked if there was anything to steal. Leonardo told me that he stole many of his things and of his other friend Joseph. I think there was not much in my bag to steal, so I was lucky. And yet, he is the son of a rich family, rolls in a Mercedes and just gave a portable computer to Leonardo. So donít ask me what his problem is.
Shame I had not met Mario before end, he seemed interested in me, as Leonardo believes he is gay. However it would have been quite impossible to be his friend, as in that circle I belong to Leonardo. Even if I donít really belong to him. He left at 8 am this morning and I am pleased to say that nothing happened. I was faithful to Stephen.
I feel deep love
for my Stephen, and being separated for so long made me realize it. I think Iím
finally ready to write cheap little love songs after all, something that has
always puzzled me, as I was never really in love before. Well, not quite true,
and yet, never felt like writing anything about love. More like destruction
once it was no longer going as planned. My poor baby has suffered long enough,
I will never be separated from him ever again. I long for going all over
We were discussing
yesterday how my English sounded British or not. Since Iíve learnt it there, it
would be logical that it would sound British. The friends of Leonardo settled
on the idea that some words I use, some expressions are British in nature,
otherwise I sound more like a French man speaking English. And yet at two in
the morning we were at a Seven Eleven, trying to buy alcohol after the time
they were allowed to. I said only two sentences: ďDo you still sell alcohol at
this time? Look, my clock says that it is only 1h58Ē. And that was enough for
the guy from
9 July 2006
No one at 911 or
at the police station were in a hurry to hear my story, or even to check out
dark blue cars with my TV in the back and two white man a bit fat at the front.
As they have not heard the story yet and it has been nearly an hour now. Only
in films do we see the police jumping up and down when something gets stolen. I
guess they have enough with all the murders, I suppose, since
I hope these thieves were disorganized and called me from their real mobile phone. I hope there was a camera in the car park where I live that filmed them. I hope the police might already have an idea of who they are. I hope they get caught for their audacity. It is no longer a question of the $480 I lost, now it is a question of principles and revenge. I am flabbergasted that I could have been such a fool. Iíll never ever again trust anyone else in my life.
adventure has quite de-motivated me to start selling on eBay upon my return to
The police is so slow coming here, and yet, they would have been so fast jumping on me if I tried to buy anything with that fake money, it would be unbelievable. I would be accused of whatever faster than these guys will ever be caught.
God, the police is certainly taking its time, Iím starting to believe that they wonít show up at all. And while I wait I am incapable of doing anything else, as I am anxious. Iíve been trying to read some fake Sherlock Holmes stories written by the best crime fiction writers, and they really have nothing of Sir Arthur Conan Doyleís style. Definitely, I have reached my quota of fake stuff for one day.
The police finally
came, at around
It is amazing how poor my sense of observation is. I could barely describe the guys, even less the car, though I was in their company for quite a while. I could not remember the color of their hair, their clothes, their eyes, nothing. It is almost ridiculous, I could have imagined the whole thing! I remember my dreams better than that!
Well, well, well. I have to say, I am quite disappointed with the work of our policemen. They barely asked me any question, they were not interested in the extra details I had to say, their fingerprint guy came in, put black powder everywhere and has not felt it was worth it to take any, and of course there must have been a lot, mine for a start. They never thought necessary to take my own fingerprints to be able to at least eliminate them from the lot they will find at the very least on the money itself. I am very puzzled by all this.
Either they just donít care about their job and know very well this will never really be investigated, or else, their methods of detection are so far advanced, and I am so ignorant of them, that they can go ahead without fingerprints or the many details I could give them, as obviously their methods might rely instead on cameras, calls the criminals made to my place, etc., but Iím kidding myself if I believe they will go as far as that just for my $480 of counterfeit money. The policeman said that in all probability I will never hear from them again unless they find the guilty party. How reassuring.
10 July 2006
There, I have
finished the other book tonight, Iím leaving tomorrow. And since this is a blog
Perfect timing in
every way. Destiny arranged itself perfectly. I can see it again, all is
perfect. Especially my TV and my DVD Recorder being lost. I could not see
myself struggling to bring back that DVD Recorder to
However, if I get
15 July 2006
I landed in
But letís not
talk about that shite. Iím drunk now, for the first time since Iíve returned to
Funny, how powerful I feel like tonight. Iím listening to Lisa Loeb & the Nine Stories, and yet, they had one great album and then disappeared forever. Thatís what Iím trying to reach tonight, and yet, I donít need to die just yet. Iím bond to go much further in any of my projects. Just need my chance, and then, Iíll become the most important writer of all times, the most important author of all times. Nothing less will be sufficient, and I know intelligence and hard work will be required. Iím not afraid of that, I wish I had the time to concentrate on it, to† make it all happen. And somehow Iíll make it happen. I will somehow. Iíll reach the planet right in its heart, as no excuse will do. Who cares if Iím poor? Who cares if I have to work full time on some other thing? Does not matter. Iíll make it happen.
16 July 2006
Iím back in
Already there is something to wreck all this, my neighbour is gay, and Stephen conveniently hid that fact for months. I should be suspicious, however considering how many times a month we have sex, I guess the guy probably didnít do anything with that guy. Twice in the last two days the guy came here, the first time we called him around, the second time he came on his own. He doesnít have a computer you see, but of course, he is as addicted to his emails as can be. With a bit of luck I could have him here every day, as long as Stephen is working somewhere, my main priority, find him a job, get rid of him.
Stephen, and I am only realizing this now, is suffering from a compulsive disorder, just like the Leonardoís landlady. In layman terms it translates as someone who cannot be alone in a different room than you for more than five minutes, and will do anything to attract your attention every single minute to prevent you from achieving anything, do any work on the computer. He feels the need to talk and talk and ask questions until you die. Mind you, it is not as serious as that landlady, he is not at the point of repeating stuff to himself over and over again, or ask the same question 20 times in a row, however all the other symptoms are present.
I didnít think I
could interest the neighbor, in fact Iím pretty sure he wouldnít be interested
in me, however there is something to be said about having your direct neighbor
a potential victim for satisfying your sex life. Itís easy, convenient,
perfect. So they donít have to be an ideal sex model, they just need to be
available when the desire arises. So Iíve got a great chance there, and it
would be, finally, a great thing if this was to go through and I would have sex
with him on a regular basis. I deserve it, for having such a cold fish as a
boyfriend. Having sacrificed my sex life to him for over a decade, when all the
guy is capable of doing since my return to London, is threatening me with: itís
not going to work, you and my zoo donít agree, and my animals are more
important than you are, so perhaps you should move out! When I sacrificed my
Now, Iím not like
one of those wives, with a husband addicted to computers, which decide to leave
them, under the pretence that they love their computer more than they love
them, who cares about that, everyone is addicted to something, or else life
would not be worth living. But if it is the wife who kicks you out, like it is
in my case, thereís little I can do. However I will no longer leave
Iím in some sort of weird mood right now. So Iím doing weird stuff, weird behavior. For example, Iím listening right now to a bunch of successes by Diana Ross and The Supremes. I would only do such a thing, if I felt I was near death. Iím fascinated by some weird fact I think I have uncovered. I believe Diana Ross has been begging all these people, the greatest in the industry, to write songs for her, and I believe they took the piss out of her, and wrote the most inconceivable lyrics for her, to ridicule her beyond comprehension, however, they were so talented, these songs became greatest hits.
Reminds me of the song BjŲrk wrote for Madonna, Letís Get Unconscious Baby (with the help of drugs I suppose), so unlike Madonna, that it becomes a gem. Mmmh, makes me dream, I could write the wildest lyrics for the most perfect people, they would never suspect where I am going with this, with the only intention to cover them with ridicule, and yet, it could turn out to be the best songs ever, classics. Iím that close to get Leonardo to do exactly that, sing songs Iíve written which are so anarchist, so extreme, and yet, it would do great song, even if they would be the total opposite of who he is, and what he wishes to achieve with his musical career. Doesnít matter, as long as you write the most perfect song there is, my God, you can say and suggest just about anything, and if you can hide that even from the performer, turn it into a number one worldwide, then you can laugh all the way back to your grave. Irony has always been what characterized my work, letís push it to the limits. I never minded being accused of just about anything, god knows Iíve taken the biggest risks ever. I can now be qualified as an anarchist, a terrorist, a pedophile, and what else. Iím laughing my heart out. Let them think whatever they want, as long as I am making a point, as long as I am getting somewhere. True, Iíve not been going anywhere fast lately, it could all change overnight however, it will change overnight at some point, I have to believe it, or else thereís no point for me to continue to live. Writing is everything to me, I wonít suddenly become a business man and forget all about it, as if it was some sort of childís dream, no no, nothing of the sort. I will be heard! I will get somewhere, I will be recognized! Thereís no other way, or else, this world is doom! Iím telliní ya, listen to what Iím saying, or else, this world is dead, a dead world, full of manipulators, and manipulated people, zombies, thatís all we are, forever. Pay your taxes, thatís all is required from youÖ no longer. Listen to me! Iíll show you the way, in fact, Iíll turn you into my personal slaves, seems it appears so easy to turn you into slaves.
Let me take
control over that, at least, so we can actually try to build a better world.
Under anyone else, Iím afraid, you would be serving evil. Probably the
Anyway, democracy is not the way forward, far from it. These political systems we had in the past, for hundreds of years, are long past date. I might not be the one who will rethink it, but something else is coming, Iím sure of it, and it will make everyone happy. Democracy might die in the process, however it might be a necessary evil, I predict it. We will come up with something better, I just know, it is the next logical step. If we cannot trust the election process anymore. Weíll elect someone there that we can trust, for life, and that will be the end of it. If you trust someone so implicitly, why not keep that person there for life? Impeach them as soon as you feel something is not right. Simple. This is still democracy, but of a different kind.
My God, am I finally developing my own little essay on politics? How nice would that be, as I though of revolutionizing that for such a long time, as it is so clear to me that democracy has been dead for years, and only now are we figuring it out. Bush was never meant to be in power, that much is clear. Certainly not to win a second mandate. Something smell so bad here, it is a miracle that it has not been uncovered and denounced yet beyond all doubts. I suspect that many elctions and referendums have been tricked, especially anything that one be less than a percent, even five, you cannot trust the system. Fraud is everywhere, scamming people seems to be in the nature of anyone in power. Power is such a coveted thing, people would do anything to get it, to remain there once in power, and yet, this is meaningless, why, oh why? Itís mystery to me, as I never had any ambition, and thatís why I would be the perfect candidate, because I never wanted the job, but if I were to inherit it, Iíll do a damn good job of it. You can believe it. And thatís what we need as our leaders, people who never wanted it in the first place, but that we know would do a damn good job of it. Thatís why I think the actual system fail the people. The ones who crave power are all the wrong people, they are evil in nature, with more ambitions than is worth the job, which is after all a job of helping the people, something which usually goes against their ambitious nature. Theyíre not there to sort out everything, theyíre there to gain recognition, make more money, play at being powerful. We donít need that, thatís the last thing we need. Crawl back to your mother, and die. We have no need for you.
But enough about politics. I think I need to jump into poetry, unclear statements about everything. Where I am free to denounce everything, without actually denouncing anything.
12 August 2006
I have been back for one month now, though Iím trying hard to convince everyone and I that it has only been two weeks. The reason why is simple, I donít feel like doing anything at the moment. Of course, one can only be idle for a certain amount of time before everyone around start panicking and remind us that this is not acceptable.
I have not worked on starting this conference business. I have not worked on the novel/film script with Leonardo, even though he worked on it, but only minimally anyway. I have done a minimum of research about starting my own eBay business, then again it did not go anywhere. So what have I done? For a month now I have been downloading just about every single book of sci-fi in existence. Thatís what I have been doing night and day. This is madness. I understand that Stephen should have exploded two weeks ago, however he has been so idle himself in recent months whilst he should have been looking for work, that it is harder for him to complain now.
However something happened tonight that is threatening my idleness. I have trouble figuring out what I should do at this point, hence I am writing here to understand. First of all, we need to see what destiny has provided. I am in the process of successfully stop all my creditors payments for another five months, so until the New Year I would not have to pay anything to anyone. An eBay business in those conditions would be perfect, because who cares if I donít make any money? Stephen is working now, he can pay the bills. And if I make money, then Iíll pay too. So from the point of view of destiny, there will never be a more perfect time than now to decide to start a business, whether it is conferences or an online shop, as I would only need a minimum of money to survive each month.
What woke me up
tonight is an email from my ex-manager where I used to work in
If it was to go back to Westminster working five days a week, I would not even entertain the idea before I was really stuck with family pressure and finances, and before having done a full scale search for a new job which has nothing to do with conferences or having to travel to Central London every day. However, I could not sleep tonight because it got me thinking. What ifÖ
What if I was only
working part time? Three or four days a week instead of five? It would make no
difference to the amount of money I would be left with every month, because of
my creditors leaving me with the bare minimum to survive, no matter the salary
I get. What if on top of it I was actually working from home? However letís look
at destiny, why have I downloaded all those ebooks? Because I would need them
if I wish to read in the train whilst traveling to
Iím in a big
dilemma right now. What will I answer her back? Easy to go back to my old job.
Nothing to prove anymore since my only two conferences I produced there made a
fortune. I learned a lot in the
I am meeting my
cousin in less than seven hours in
What he will tell
me about is that he is no longer a virgin, that he can no longer stand his
girlfriend who only talks of marriage, but then, only marriage could keep him
Thereís no limit anyway, is there, to whatever we can accomplish in this life? Should we not be living on the edge, letís just do it, letís have fun, letís die with a fucking big smile on our face. Letís become billionaires, letís get the freedom we deserve. Hi ha! Is this not what life is all about?
I came back at the
right time, Stephen was sinking. Because of my return he actually called an
employer, I emailed the CV, he got the job. And now it will be to sort my
cousin out before he makes a mistake. He would have had already returned to
God knows, he might announce me that he is gay and cannot stand fucking a girl anymore. How nice would that be. I guess thatís just impossible.
In the meantime,
weather wise, I got what I wanted. I traded the permanent summer of
I heard Avril
Lavigne lives in Montecito, close to where I lived, it almost made me puke.
What the fuck is she doing there anyway? Sheís Canadian, we should be dreaming
of Europe, not of less than what we already had in
I donít think I
could write a novel in English and ever be recognized or even published. So I
guess I really need to get back to French. But French science fiction? Come on,
there is not one publisher left in
I need the idea of the century, of the millennium. Shit, I need to write a new Bible and start my own religion. I guess I could do that. People are so ready to follow any lunatic these days, switch religion like we switch hat, sell our soul to whomever as soon as possible, weíre desperate. I need the idea of the century, with the content, dialogue and events to back it up. It needs to be epic, grandiose, perfection. How am I going to achieve that? I have to, no other choice. This is it this time, I will explode everywhere all at once, the entire planet will know my name.
21 September 2006
Almost October, it
is almost unbelievable. That I have been back in
I have not thought once about suicide since my arrival, I spend my days with our new parrot on my shoulder, and the rest of the night I have my Murmy in my arms. How these animals can love you so much is beyond comprehension. Weíre different species after all, and yet, if they could, Iím sure they would save your life. Makes me happy Iíve been vegetarian for over 20 years now.
I canít say as
much for my fellow humans. In
Iím starting to wonder if finally thereís no hope for the human race for any love or compassion. I feel that ultimate annihilation is inevitable, as even our politicians are corrupted to the brink. Nothing has changed from the past to the present, we just have a bit more technology to occupy our mind and prevent us from thinking any further about what is going on in the world. Good, better leave the world to the world, isolate myself and forget about it all. This freedom we think we have, those rights, has always been a mere illusion. I guess someone intelligent in the shadow thought: oh, I know, letís convince them they are free and have rights, and letís make sure that behind the scene it is as it has always been.
It is clear now that I will not start my own business, for various reasons, the main one is the lack of motivation, or of faith. I guess I am doomed to follow the easy path, find a new job somewhere and endure the wrath of my bosses and colleagues till death.
I have renewed my correspondence with my Timeline Switcher. I guess weíll restart talking about how to change our future for the best. However, no matter how hard I think, thereís nothing else I want from life, nothing exciting I would like to fall on my head tomorrow morning. Iím ready to retire somewhere far from everyone and everything, and meditate till death, something that will never be granted.
I learnt yesterday that I have nothing to pay to my creditors for the next three months. That sounds like destiny, a great opportunity, some time I should use wisely despite the pressure from Stephen to find a job and bring some money in. For that purpose I have rewritten my rťsumť, and now it looks like I am dumb and have barely any experience. Like I was just an assistant organizing conferences. So perhaps I will get a job that pays nothing, but where they canít expect much either. However I know I am sadly mistaken, any job is hard and you always have to suffer your bosses who have a legal right to take over your life. Weíre working harder today than anyone ever has in the past, this life of leisure they were predicting has been forgotten because of the greed of the corporate world.
I have no idea
what awaits me after all that happened to me this last year. I guess it is the
pinnacle of my career, this little trip to
You would not think that from looking at me tonight. Iím listening to Nana Mouskouri, something I thought I would only be doing if I felt near death. I have a morbid interest in Mouskouri as my mother was always listening to it when I was very young. And I read recently that she has sold more records than just about everybody on this planet. What a chilling thought. Donít worry, I can only listen to it for a while before having to go back to something more modern, like Muse for example, to get back on Earth, or in the case of Muse, somewhere else in the universe. I even believe I might have inspired some of their work, their last album is called Black Holes and Revelations and they have a song with the same title of my sci-fi novel on my website: The Shrinking Universe. A puzzling coincidence for sure, if that is all this is. And the singer/song writer being into paranormal as well, I fail to comprehend how he could have missed my website. Maybe I have a larger impact on this world than I always believed. Great if it is the case, shame on me for believing it is if it is not. Soon I will start believing that I am Jesus-Christ reincarnated, and then know with certitude that I am suffering from bipolar disease or maniaco-depressive, or whatever these things are called in English.